Something interesting has happened lately. In several of my online profiles -- especially on gay bear sites and in apps like Scruff and GROWLr -- I have made a point to share that I identify as an ethical slut (amongst several other things). Several have asked to know more, of course, but a growing number are inquiring about how they can integrate ( Read more... )

Wow... it was quite a long weekend for me... a joyous one. I've heard some of the trials and tribulations from friends, other family, and coworkers. I don't know who was watching over me, but I had a fabulous time.

( THURSDAY )

In my post about last night's scene with Courtney, I recalled that it had been two years between this and our previous bonafide scene. It got me to thinking about a writing assignment I was given soon after a group of us first attended Folsom Fringe in 2006. The intent of the assignment was to start me off on doing a journal/blog to capture my ( Read more... )

You are Obi-Wan Kenobi

You are civilized, calm, and have a good sense of humor, even when those around you don't. You can hold your own in a fight, but prefer it when things don't get too exciting.


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As usual, courtneydisney captured the munch goodness pretty well ( Read more... )

OK. I've been poking around on different sites lately to see where I run into the most fun people. But right now the best one out there is by far www.bear411.com. Although several of them lovely bear mens are distant, a handfull of the ones flirting with me from SoCal are actually coming up here for bear events this summer. I'm a completely ( Read more... )

I've lurked on a variety of personals and gay sites over time. Just recently, I wandered over to sign up on Bear411. And lately I've been getting pinged by a variety of LOCAL guys there -- what a refreshing change. There's one in particular that I've been very interested to meet. No, I mean really meet... hang out, maybe date. I enjoy sex and ( Read more... )

A bear lumbers out of the woods to forage for breakfast. He glimpses... a meal? No, a human. Here? Under the cover of the lush woodland, he ambles closer to investigate. And what's that? A mirage of the morning light, or a Nymph hovering nearby? They speak to one another, whispers in the dance of morning fog. His brow settles as he realizes he ( Read more... )

Is there a clue phone nearby with a sliver of paper between the striker and bell? Just lately I've been innundated by guys (esp those lovely bear types) wanting to do me. In particular, there have been a few from SoCal who have suggested I hop onto a plane or train to go see them. Am I simply not realizing my potential as an attractive sexual being ( Read more... )

Well, I had an interesting experience with someone online this evening.

I got a message from a user on a gay bear internet site. Very adorable, I thought. Profile seemed nice, there was some fun flirty banter. Of course, I realized he was from Orange County, so the chances that anything would actually happen were pretty slim. He joked --- I hope he ( Read more... )