abuse: control | _survivors

Thought-Stirring Post: Public (repeat)

pwalkeri wrote in _survivors_ Feb 06, 2011 02:48

This Thought-Stirring Post was initially posted in 2007 by sistahraven. You can find the original post here.

( Power Roles in an abusive relationship. )

abuse: control, thought stirring post

Me

peter_lorax wrote in _survivors_ Apr 17, 2008 18:42

A few notes on me:

( Cut for talk of manipulation, physical abuse, thoughts of murder, and cutting family ties )

abuse: control, abuse: child, family, abuse: physical

Family time at Christmas

mauvedragon wrote in _survivors_ Dec 26, 2007 07:57

( Triggers: Family time at Christmas, watching Dad stay in an abusive relationship, abuser justifications, control as abuse )

abuse: control, family, relationships

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shadowkat3 wrote in _survivors_ Jun 20, 2007 10:53

"Either you fuck her, or i'll make her wish you had"

this is the choice steve put to matt at about 2:30 this morning

steve mustve woken up and realized, oh wow i havent made kat want to crawl into a hole and die lately...maybe I should fix that!

he called matt and i into the living room and had a gun in his hand, his .45. he put it under matt's chin ( Read more... )

abuse: child, abuse: incest, abuse: coercion, abuse: mental, abuse: control, abuse: sexual, abuse: physical, abuse: ritual, sexual assault, coercion, threats, rape, abuse: emotional, abuse: enabled

General Confusion

shadowkat3 wrote in _survivors_ Jun 06, 2007 22:06

After seeing the video/dance laceandtea posted and thinking about this weekend, this is what floated to the surface to be typed up here.....

For whoever's been following, I was AWOL this past weekend from the computer because two important things in my life happened
1) andrea and roxie (my step sister who's amazing and loving and great and my step ( Read more... )

abuse: control, abuse: child, abuse: physical, domestic violence

Mother, Money, Boundaries

browncoatrebel wrote in _survivors_ Jan 01, 2007 01:53

Over Christmas break, I found out my mother has been lying to me all semester about putting money in my account. This has reached crisis point--the straw that broke the camel's back, to be cliche. It's not just about the money: it's mostly about the way she treats me and the boundaries I need to set ( Read more... )

abuse: control, family, boundaries

Abusive parent (long post)

mauvedragon wrote in _survivors_ Aug 29, 2006 17:52

( Triggers: Emotional, Verbal Abuse, Anxiety, Depression, control issues, self-harm and suicidal thoughts )

abuse: control, panic attacks

Intro Post

colenic417 wrote in _survivors_ Jul 31, 2006 11:51

Hi- I found this community because I am struggling with something that happened a long time ago. It is stupid and it is anniversary time and I have realized how much these events have shaped my life and the relationships that I have. I would appreciate any feedback and comments that you care to make.

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miscarriage, rape: acquaintance/date, abortion, abuse: control, abuse: physical, kidnapping, parent/abuser with personality disorder, stalking

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livinginhell5 wrote in _survivors_ Jul 27, 2006 22:25

have you ever gotten into something you know is unhealthy and is going to hurt you one way or another??????

ok so i'm in this relationship with the very controlling guy he freaks out everytime i tell him i hung out with a guy friend i'm not suppose to talk to other guys he has to know who i'm with 24/7 and if i don't tell him he'll use choice words ( Read more... )

abuse: control, threats

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anglo_don_juan wrote in _survivors_ Jun 30, 2006 20:08

( I will not confront him. )

contact with abuser, abuse: control, venting, invalidation, abuse: csa