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[livinginhell5]

have you ever gotten into something you know is unhealthy and is going to hurt you one way or another??????

ok so i'm in this relationship with the very controlling guy he freaks out everytime i tell him i hung out with a guy friend i'm not suppose to talk to other guys he has to know who i'm with 24/7 and if i don't tell him he'll use choice words

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[briar_witch]

You're right to be scared, when he told you he would "make" you, he was threatening rape/sexual assault. Everything you've described is abusive and manipulative. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Your gut is telling you not to go, listen to your gut.

[goodthingscomin]

I agree with this 100%.

[sistahraven]

As do I, this guy is BAD news, get out as soon as you can!

[arsinoea]

get the fuck out of there. im not kidding. this is scaring me even, because i want to do something but i cant do it for you. i hope you have courage. take care of yourself.
ill be praying.

[ladycatherina]

Sweetie, there's no reason someone should treat you like that, extreme jealousy and pressure for sex when you don't want it are signs of a seriously abusive relationship.

I know how you feel about not wanting to just leave someone, not wanting to hurt them or give up on them. That's normal and it's OK to feel like that - but it won't help either of you if you end up in a cycle where he hurts you and you're too afraid to stand up for yourself. Probably the most loving thing you can do is to think of both of your futures, get out of the relationship before you end up getting even more abused, and give him a wake-up call that he needs to get some counseling and work on changing his attitudes and working through his issues.

I'm concerned for your safety should you leave him - please contact a women's organization or shelter for advice, please don't be afraid to take the steps you need to in order to protect yourself legally if he stalks you, etc.

[water_fairy717]

No one has the right to make you do anything. You control your own life. If you say 'no' then that means 'no'. And if he were any sort of a man he would take it for what its worth. If he really repected you he would wait and not try to guilt you into doing things you don't want to do.

And like ladycatherina said its ok not to want to hurt or give up on someone. But you should always take care of yourself first and foremost.

[geminipoohsf]

I agree with everyone here, get the fuck out NOW!! this guy is totally dangerous, he could kill you...GET OUT NOW! hugs :)