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I posted this before (yesterday), but it's still my problem:
Almost every night for the past month I fall asleep with my friend. We cuddle, mostly spoon, and he's kissed my neck, touched my boobs in passing (we're usually shirtless), but mostly he just puts his arms around me and we sleep.
Sometimes, he lays on his back and I put my head on his chest and he strokes my hair.
I enjoy it, but lately I've been getting a little anxious if you know what I mean.
Is it weird that we do this? Do we take it further? We've never, ever mentioned it. He shares a room with my other best friend, and sometimes he calls us "cuddle sluts" but it's rarely mentioned.
I personally would find it weird and wouldn't be able to do something like that w/o taking it further. But if so far it's just like... friends with benefits just like cuddle benefits, then I guess just let things be.
I don't know, really. Sometimes I'm just like "jfc kiss me or SOMETHING" and then other times I'm like "this is hindering my chances of actually getting some action" and then other times it's perfect and fun.
i posted about this the other day... he's really a nice guy and i know he cares about me, but there's stuff that bugs me. on halloween he got really drunk and was talking about how one time he danced with the "hottest fucking chick ever", and then walked away from me at a big party where i knew no one and left me alone in the kitchen carrying his beers. he used to sleep around a lot and be kind of an asshole and it has always bugged me, idk why i can't ever get over it. but he's told me "you're not the hottest person i've been with" and i am so insecure it really upsets me and it has made everything suck because i don't feel good enough and everything ugh long comment
I really don't know what to do, like the him sleeping around has always bothered me but "past is past" but I guess I've never been with someone who was like that and I don't trust him, especially when he makes comments like that... I mean everything else is okay with us and we have fun but it's really hard feeling good enough. Especially w/ sex, he hasn't been "as in the mood" with me and like, just a year ago he was so horny he had to fuck drunk sluts? blehhh
I don't know... I mean, I don't think I could be with someone who didn't think I was really hot, you know? And it's not like you're NOT hot, so I don't know why he's trying to make you feel bad. It sounds like he's trying to make you feel like you're lucky to be with him, which is ridiculous.
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Almost every night for the past month I fall asleep with my friend. We cuddle, mostly spoon, and he's kissed my neck, touched my boobs in passing (we're usually shirtless), but mostly he just puts his arms around me and we sleep.
Sometimes, he lays on his back and I put my head on his chest and he strokes my hair.
I enjoy it, but lately I've been getting a little anxious if you know what I mean.
Is it weird that we do this? Do we take it further? We've never, ever mentioned it. He shares a room with my other best friend, and sometimes he calls us "cuddle sluts" but it's rarely mentioned.
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