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What relationship problems are you having now? If you don't have an SO, they can be with friends coworkers, classmates, family or anyone else I forgot. Tell TQC Anon and get advice.

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[ships_sail]

I posted this before (yesterday), but it's still my problem:

Almost every night for the past month I fall asleep with my friend. We cuddle, mostly spoon, and he's kissed my neck, touched my boobs in passing (we're usually shirtless), but mostly he just puts his arms around me and we sleep.

Sometimes, he lays on his back and I put my head on his chest and he strokes my hair.

I enjoy it, but lately I've been getting a little anxious if you know what I mean.

Is it weird that we do this? Do we take it further? We've never, ever mentioned it. He shares a room with my other best friend, and sometimes he calls us "cuddle sluts" but it's rarely mentioned.

WHAT TO DO

[g0omba]

I personally would find it weird and wouldn't be able to do something like that w/o taking it further. But if so far it's just like... friends with benefits just like cuddle benefits, then I guess just let things be.

[ships_sail]

I don't know, really. Sometimes I'm just like "jfc kiss me or SOMETHING" and then other times I'm like "this is hindering my chances of actually getting some action" and then other times it's perfect and fun.

[ships_sail]

he's gay.

[ships_sail]

He's not, though.

[anchellada]

lol ive been in that sitution before and it was weird to me. idk. i think id try to make a move and if he doesnt bite back id just say fuck it and stop sleeping over probs.

that made me sound like a whore :/

[ships_sail]

That's probably what it will come to. Either outcome is going to be really weird.

[free_the_gnomez]

awww idk but i want a cuddle buddy

[ships_sail]

I don't even really like cuddling, I don't know how this came to be. I feel like I don't deserve it!