I have successfully gotten the husband into a new car.  I probably should phrase it properly.   I spent several thousand dollars clearing up credit blemishes from before we were together and rode him about addressing issues I couldn't throw money at to solve.  The result, when we first met his credit score was in the mid 400s.  Now, he got a small ( Read more... )

Few questions get the response from me that this one does.  A sense of "Fuck" and "Ok, what do you know that I don't?" hits simultaneously ( Read more... )

I never understood why it was so hard for me to make friends.  I still don't "understand", but I think I'm on the right track ( Read more... )

The simple reality is...things are better than they have been in a long while.  The biggest reason for that is that I left things alone and let them happen.  What's commonly not known is that I could have been doing better a long time ago, I just wouldn't let that occur ( Read more... )

Ashley Madison...never meant anything to me until this whole hoopla with the hackers exposing the membership list.  I wonder how many hypocrites were busted?  "Gay marriage will destroy the fabric of society" or some nonsense ( Read more... )

I think my therapist hit it on the head when he said, "I feel your need to answer or solve things actually causes you more problems than it helps ( Read more... )

In the 43 years of life, I've known far more about myself and my life than a lot of people would give me credit for.  It's always weird talking about myself using positive things.  It's far far easier and more comfortable to focus on my negatives.  But, won't do that....not yet at least.  I have an amazing sense of self.  I've purposefully led ( Read more... )

It's funny how people just assume something. Because my head doesn't like to be quiet, I put that to use as much as I can. Almost any situation I enter into that has a possible negative outcome, I've likely already considered it and accepted it as a possibility. So when it's presented to me, it's not that I don't care. It's that I've already ( Read more... )

I hate the words "lay" and "lie".  At my age, I've yet to use the right word at the right time.  No amount of explaining and examples seem to help this madness at all.  I digressed ( Read more... )

I guess the best way to say it is that my life has almost come full circle now ( Read more... )