( Just a guest, but please help me with my what to wear questions so I don't appear rude at someone's wedding )

I got some information and tips from my photographer today in a lovely packet.  One of the things she talked about was unplugging the wedding...so basically having everyone put their phones and cameras away and having HER be the ONLY one taking pictures.  I'm really torn on this...obviously I don't want phones out, but there are several family ( Read more... )

Hey WPers! Question for you ( Read more... )

My bridesmaids live 250 and 120 miles away from me, and I'd like to ask them to start looking at X or checking out Y and things like that. But I haven't seen them in a few months and I'd kind of feel odd springing a "hey lovely, would you mind looking at a few bridesmaid dresses and emailing me pics? thank you! miss you!" on them, even though it's ( Read more... )

Hi :) Just over 2 weeks to go and I am freaking out! Anyway, 3 questions for you today:

1. Who normally says their vows first, the bride or the groom?

2. Is this a good order: 
                      - Stating that yes, we are free to marry each other
                      - Repeating 'I (name) take you (name) to be my wedded husband/wife' (OK legal bit ( Read more... )

 My spouse and I were married back in October, and while we are long overdue for a post-wedding update, sadly this is not that post!

Recently we received what we consider a "courtesy" invite to a wedding in my spouse's hometown.  Basically, my spouse's parents and the bride's parents are good friends, so there were reciprocal invites, but only the ( Read more... )

Hi everyone ( Read more... )

Hey everyone! So there are 41 days until the wedding...it's really crunch time! A majority of the stuff is done, but I have some questions ( Read more... )

So, we have yet to make save the date cards since, as my mom keeps telling me, we have time (something like sixteen months). I had this thought that we take pictures with a white board saying 1. Our names 2. "are getting married" 3. "on August 11th 2012" 4. "save the date!" one phrase per picture and putting all four pictures on a post card (if ( Read more... )

Who gets invited to the bridal shower?

My fiance's mom is planning the bridal shower. The place it's being held at can hold 50 people. The thing that's irritating me is that she keeps adding all these people from FH's side of the family that HAVE to be invited. Like an aunt's sister or something, just because "that's what you do." I don't even know ( Read more... )