Post Catalog
I'm exhausted today, and therefore a bear of very little brain, so the other stuff I wanted to write will have to wait. However, I'm thinking (because I've found myself frustratedly searching time and time again) that I'm going to catalog my more relevant posts. (OCD much? Nah...) See the bottom of the post for navigational assistance. Be aware that since this is a manually created list, you will see titles for posts you may not have access to. If you are not comfortable seeing these titles, please use the regular LJ calendar view instead; it'll only show you what you have access to.
Basically, I'm going through my calendar month by month, and creating a specific version of it here; one without all the random small-talk posts and linkety-linketies and all (I mostly skipped purely links and politics and house-hunting records and such), and with added detail on the descriptions as necessary. These are the posts that are substantially about who I am, mostly sexually and relationally, but with some general perspective stuff tossed in about my daily life, fibro stuff, etc. They're also the posts with all the good smut. I'm creating it for my personal use, and to make it easier for people who are getting to know me to find info without wading through my full journal, and so the people who are just here for the smutty bits can find them more easily. Also, since I'm perpetually trying to find patterns in my life and health and sexuality, it'll be interesting for me to see it in the format, and see those on a larger scale.
It's likely to be a long and ongoing project, if I stick with it. So far I've just done 2010, 2 1/2 months, and it's filled up several hours of time. I've been here on LJ since '02. (and I've now gotten May 2009 - Dec 2009 done! Go, me!)
Also, comments on old posts are absolutely welcome!
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August 2008
1st
10:27 am: [private post] (for my own reference)
4th
09:13 am: [Moya] "I'm lucky, you're lucky, we're all lucky!" - 13 comments (on group sex)
01:23 pm: [private post] (for my own reference)
5th
06:42 pm: Was private for some reason (personal ad)
09:37 pm: [Exhibitionism] Fantasy that was originally a private post (fantasy I wrote for a lover)
6th
12:14 pm: [Moya] Back in the Sarah-groove... (long post about sexual needs and relationship dynamics)
12:14 pm: *yay-bounce*, but not going to be online next week, most likely... - 2 comments (tattoo)
03:30 pm: [Moya] Whys and Wherefores... - 12 comments (very long thinky post about relationships and sexuality)
10th
11:48 pm: Tattoo! Tattootattootattoo! - 29 comments
14th
04:33 pm: One hell of a week. (day in the life)
04:39 pm: [Moya] Wow. - 1 comment (very brief "yay" post)
16th
04:04 am: Private memories, M and K
03:44 pm: [Poly Nerves] Gooey. (tight-filtered memories)
23rd
01:09 pm: Life in general (day in the life)
28th
10:21 am: Some of you will want to know... - 9 comments (preparing for my cat Morph's death)
10:59 am: Dealing with death... - 2 comments (how I deal with death in general)
29th
12:21 am: As my brother said: "Wow" - 5 comments (ramblings about my feelings on the Obamas)
September 2008
3rd
08:01 pm: Blah. - 5 comments (day in the life)
5th
10:22 am: Improvements... - 6 comments (day in the life, how I cope with depression)
10th
09:53 am: Life in general, and a few links - 2 comments (day in the life)
14th
07:17 am: Final list of images for ongoing tattoo work... - 14 comments
17th
07:09 pm: Cool stuff... - 3 comments (day in the life)
25th
11:00 am: Haven't been posting much of substance... - 2 comments (depression)
October 2008
2nd
11:30 am: Brief life update... - 12 comments (fibro-coping and day in the life)
12:15 pm: That's more like it... - 3 comments (book-love)
3rd
02:48 pm: Seems like a handy meme... - 4 comments (Answers to many basic questions about my life at this point)
8th
03:11 pm: *snerk* Hoist on his own petard? - 2 comments (politics, household day in the life)
03:37 pm: Yet more ways that I'm thoroughly healthy... - 17 comments (medical troubleshooting)
9th
01:53 pm: Brief life update... (day in the life and couchsurfers)
11th
05:22 am: Pledge-a-Picketer - 8 comments (day in the life)
12th
05:42 am: More couchsurfers! (day in the life)
20th
09:42 am: Stir-crazy - 6 comments (fibro-coping)
21st
11:49 am: Medical rambling - 8 comments (very detailed post about coping with the fibro)
23rd
02:14 pm: *sigh* More medical stuff... - 9 comments (fibro-coping)
24th
02:05 pm: Up side to everything... - 6 comments (fibro-coping)
26th
05:28 am: *eyeroll* - 8 comments (Judd Apatow critique)
November 2008
1st
12:28 pm: at the polls! - 13 comments (day in the life)
3rd
11:39 am: Politics, of course - 11 comments (random political ramblings, and the Obama rally)
11:55 am: Politics and large-group events (a few thoughts about what I love and fear)
4th
09:36 am: So excited. - 9 comments (election)
5th
09:48 am: Politics, of course! - 7 comments (election, and day in the life)
12:24 pm: So. Tired. - 9 comments (fibro-coping)
13th
11:44 am: Damned brain. Damned body. - 12 comments (fibro-coping)
18th
10:03 am: Great birthday... - 4 comments (day in the life and reviews and some commentary on a Greta Christina piece about sexuality)
20th
08:59 am: Fibro rating scale - 4 comments (fibro-coping)
21st
12:34 pm: Oh, my coworkers are awesome! - 8 comments (day in the life)
25th
12:48 am: Dr. Appt today... - 4 comments (fibro-coping)
28th
12:04 pm: Hand advice? - 21 comments (fibro-coping and some thoughts on a few books about sexuality)
December 2008
1st
12:24 pm: Pain Management appt - 12 comments (fibro-coping)
07:22 pm: Infomercial Amusement - 6 comments (on sex-toy infomercials)
07:57 pm: Hooray, and Hooray! - 2 comments (combination of articles and sexuality book review)
2nd
10:08 am: IM/communication heads up... - 2 comments (practicalities of reaching me post -- I've added necessary updates in the last comment)
3rd
09:21 am: Good news, bad news. - 1 comment (fibro-coping)
10:26 am: [Moya Filter] Good things... - 3 comments (fibro-coping and sexuality and new partner)
01:57 pm: Sad Day... (just a noting of Odetta's death; our truck is now named after her)
9th
11:17 am: *sigh* - 2 comments (fibro-coping)
10th
06:24 pm: Hmmm. Well. - 3 comments (longish post on work stress)
11th
10:56 am: Some good things... - 8 comments (fibro-coping)
16th
04:14 pm: *sigh* - 12 comments (fibro-coping)
17th
11:19 am: *whew* Massive Relief. - 4 comments (fibro-coping)
23rd
10:37 am: Weird down here today... - 1 comment (day in the life)
25th
09:12 am: Merry Christmas! (day in the life)
29th
08:54 am: Yay! More dogs! - 6 comments (day in the life)
January 2009
15th
02:21 pm: Brief update - 6 comments
24th
09:58 pm: Home from Nashville (day in the life and seeing family)
30th
10:25 am: Work's hectic, life's quiet - 3 comments (pics of the household dogs)
February 2009
3rd
07:33 pm: Hee! - 7 comments (our household ends up on the news in a piece about communal households)
14th
03:05 am: *defenestrates DVR* - 10 comments (a long post about work and how I look for fun within it)
18th
08:52 pm: Nostalgia... - 2 comments (day in the life during massive work stress)
09:07 pm: And the one other big thing on my mind these days... - 2 comments (on college, and locking doors and the balance of security and openness)
March 2009
5th
03:33 pm: Patience is a virtue. - 16 comments (on my old boss leaving -- mostly notable for making my entire life radically better.)
7th
02:02 am: Tragedy strikes! - 5 comments (huge life-update and dating catch-up)
03:32 am: Documentary: Fat: What No One Is Telling You - 6 comments (long explanation of my feelings about fat, and my body, and ways in which I'm an activist about body acceptance)
18th
10:29 pm: Little rays of political sunshine... - 16 comments (about how the political shift affects my mood)
25th
02:34 pm: In other news... - 2 comments (day in the life)
April 2009
5th
06:06 am: Early. - 6 comments (day in the life)
22nd
10:51 am: Books, movies, links, life in general... - 8 comments (also trip to Cranbrook for G's show)
28th
09:54 am: Netflix: The Story of a Sex Surrogate (review)
May 2009
1st
09:29 am: A few links and a brief update (brief general update about trying to get back in the habit of posting regularly)
4th
02:04 pm: Goodbye, Gramps... - 18 comments
6th
11:00 am: Linkety-linkety, with two specific to Clevelanders - 6 comments (about the erotic film festival that came through Cleveland, and a link to a list of Netflix movies about sexuality)
12th
12:18 pm: Wonderful vacation... - 2 comments (on seeing my girlfriends and my family)
02:48 pm: Villa Villekula - 45 comments (first post about the move -- long and detailed and excited)
09:13 pm: Thank you, Gramps. - 11 comments (about the people in my life making the move possible)
09:33 pm: Balloon art crucifix. No, really. - 8 comments
13th
08:05 am: Happy Hippy Moment... - 4 comments (on family, and friends, and community)
15th
12:03 pm: In what little other news there is... - 2 comments (day in the life)
18th
12:21 pm: Oh, such a full weekend... - 10 comments (the "we found our house!" post with all the details)
21st
08:42 am: Much fun last night -- Catch it in your city! - 5 comments (on the Erotic Short Film Festival and meeting Carol Queen)
22nd
02:36 pm: This IS Villa Villekula! - 18 comments (on finding the house, and general "day in the life")
24th
04:41 pm: It's a beautiful day... - 4 comments (Gramps' funeral, and chosen family)
27th
11:28 am: Not bored. - 2 comments ("day in the life")
12:02 pm: [Moya filter] Patience is a virtue... - 2 comments (on being poly and how that changes relationship timing)
31st
09:06 pm: Spun and muddled... - 14 comments (Dr Tiller's murder)
June 2009
1st
05:58 pm: Dr. Tiller -- Cleveland Memorial Service and Caleb's podcast: (about anger and grief and bullies)
5th
10:56 am: [Moya] I do love it when the house gets all high energy... - 2 comments (brief post on household sexual energy)
10:56 am: Life update - 10 comments (on free speech, and activism, and my community)
8th
12:12 pm: Weekend update... - 6 comments (mostly just "a day in the life")
11th
11:46 pm: Home art project! - 6 comments (on decorating my home, my truck, my body, and my life)
15th
08:27 am: My critters are trying to test my sanity. - 12 comments (day in the life during the move)
01:16 pm: [Moya] When did _that_ happen? - 2 comments (on things I've learned about my dating patterns, and a copy of my CL ad)
04:13 pm: The LJ Brain Trust: What do we know? (meme from jajy1979) - 6 comments (a list of subjects for which I'm a good answer-person)
16th
04:24 am: [Moya] Craving... - 12 comments (detailed post about my kinks and desires and how I navigate finding what I'm seeking)
03:46 pm: Crucial Distinction... - 4 comments (about my limits in relationships, and walking away from one)
06:27 pm: [Moya] As long as I've got sex on the brain... - 4 comments (very detailed explanation of types of sensations I like sexually)
09:26 pm: [Moya] A reply that became its own post... - 8 comments (detailed post about my communication needs in relationships)
17th
05:29 am: Damned weather changes... - 6 comments (Day in the Life during the move)
20th - 5 comments (brief post about being at my tattoo appt in Maine)
21st
04:29 pm: A comment I wrote over in polyamory (what "primary" means for me in a poly relationship)
07:37 pm: New tattoo work! - 4 comments (very detailed post about tattoo work, with links to other relevant posts and images)
22nd
03:03 am: More tattoo pondering... - 6 comments (ideas for future tattoo work)
03:56 am: A reply to a comment (tattoo), plus a bit of additional... (on choosing a tattoo artist)
23rd
10:58 am: This pisses me off... - 4 comments (link to Greta Christina's "What I Learned at my first Orgy")
26th
06:53 pm: Ha! My brothers are going to _love_ this! - 14 comments (research on male figures for my future tattoo plans)
July 2009
3rd
09:05 am: [Moya] Sex meme - 2 comments
02:46 pm: Dating update... - 2 comments (on poly and personal history and placing a personal ad)
7th
04:32 pm: Oh, so very true... - 16 comments (how to meet and woo a nerdy girl)
8th
01:52 pm: Home today, poly rambling... - 14 comments (on how I handle dating and relationships)
10th
03:53 pm: It's Friday, I'm bored and braindead. Have a meme. (ganked from jenx) - 8 comments (random meme about life with not all that much detail that isn't elsewhere)
06:41 pm: A relatively interesting meme... - 14 comments
11th
04:30 am: Critter roll call... - 16 comments (not at _all_ about sex, but definitely a big part of the context of my life!)
29th
08:00 am: GIP! - 4 comments (a bit of nostalgia about my childhood home)
August 2009
4th
03:06 am: Post from the trip home, mostly written Saturday - 2 comments (on family dynamics and the context of my life -- not directly about sex at all)
October 2009
22nd
08:43 pm: Well, that certainly explains a lot. - 12 comments (on fibromyalgia and life)
November 2009
3rd
08:36 pm: Silliness first... - 11 comments (day in the life)
18th
08:04 pm: GIP! - 35 comments w/ Screened (day in the life, and a cat on my head)
19th
01:55 pm: Flaring - 4 comments (day in the life and household stuff)
December 2009
9th
07:04 pm: Haved I raved about Rachel recently? - 6 comments (on geek crushes)
22nd
05:08 pm: Sexy blue love... - 2 comments (brief post about why I like the portrayal of sex in Farscape)
10:43 pm: [Moya] Deliciously achy... - 6 comments (on coming out of a major libido slump)
25th
10:32 am: [Moya] Insanely slow day at work... - 9 comments (on posting a personal ad and thinking about taking vids of myself)
26th
03:10 am: [Moya] Graphic filter - 19 comments w/ Screened (on creating the Exhibitionism filter)
04:40 am: [Exhibitionism] First post - 20 comments (pics and explanation)
08:53 am: [Exhibitionism] Pondering... - 2 comments (on exhibitionism, memories, and plans for the filter)
04:41 pm: [Exhibitionism] What next? - 2 comments w/ Screened
06:11 pm: [Exhibitionism] Wet... - 2 comments (pics)
07:04 pm: [Exhibitionism] And just to get everything up to date... - 4 comments (older pics and ramblings, including about genderqueerness, phone sex and patient-instructing)
07:33 pm: [Exhibitionism] On language... - 6 comments
08:57 pm: [Moya] _This_ is why I've been celibate for months... - 2 comments
27th
06:21 am: [Exhibitionism] Um, yeah. Again... - 14 comments (pics)
06:49 am: [Moya] Things that restore my faith in humanity... - 4 comments (on cybersex)
07:23 am: Two last random things... - 6 comments (on bears and concepts of identity and my tattoo)
03:54 pm: [Exhibitionism] No pics, just rambling about my personal history and tastes - 2 comments
04:19 pm: [Exhibitionism] On tentacles and sci-fi
05:10 pm: [Exhibitionism] Want to know a secret? - 5 comments (on a work crush)
08:59 pm: [Exhibitionism] Didn't actually _mean_ to cyber for seven hours instead of sleeping... - 6 comments (a good deal about interests and tastes and kinks)
09:32 pm: [Exhibitionism] And what's up with all the cybering anyway?
28th
06:07 am: [Exhibitionism] Sleep, please? - 9 comments (on health and sex, and self-consciousness, and porn preferences with xtube links, and a good definition of my sexual preferences described as "intensity freak")
03:47 pm: [Exhibitionism] Toys (windowshopping and plotting)
06:26 pm: [Exhibitionism] More favorite clips - 6 comments (xtube clips and discussion of preferences)
10:16 pm: [Exhibitionism] More clips, this time the rougher side of things... - 2 comments
10:21 pm: [Exhibitionism] Ask a question... - 0 comments w/ Screened (writing prompt post; still fine and encouraged to use!)
29th
01:05 am: [Moya/Exhibitionism] Answer to the first question I received... (question about fisting and safer sex preferences)
02:46 am: [Exhibitionism] So I've gotten at least a bit of sleep (long post about porn and my sexual tastes)
03:21 am: [Moya/Exhibitionism] This made me chuckle... - 2 comments (brief quote about fetishes)
09:08 am: [Exhibitionism] BRC BDSM checklist - 10 comments (with my answers and explanations)
12:41 pm: [Exhibitionism] Oh, I needed that! - 12 comments (pics and talking about excellent sex)
05:21 pm: [Exhibitionism] Also about this morning - 6 comments (about sexual standards and awesome experiences)
30th
12:18 am: [Moya] Cudgel. - 12 comments (short silly post about household conversations and sex toys)
03:39 am: [Exhibitionism] Pics: End of the night play - 20 comments
07:52 pm: [Moya] Prompted by a good conversation with my housemate today... - 3 comments (on gender dynamics, phone sex, exhibitionism, body comfort)
10:47 pm: Good grief, can't fat people just _like_ celery? - 39 comments (on body comfort)
31st
02:03 am: [Moya] Experimentalism, and being a sex geek - 6 comments (including discussion of libido patterns)
05:11 am: [Exhibitionism] windowshopping, and a practical note - 3 comments (extensive plotting about things I could do with my cunt, play and kinkwise)
06:17 am: [Exhibitionism] Fantasy - 11 comments (gangbang fantasy)
06:46 pm: [Moya] It is good to be the King. (plans for making the house more kink-friendly)
07:22 pm: [Moya] Thoughts on ritual and eroticism. - 4 comments
January 2010
1st
01:13 am: [Exhibitionism] Random - 9 comments (pics and info about some of my toys)
04:45 am: [Exhibitionism] Pics: 4am New Year's Day - 14 comments
05:27 am: [Exhibitionism] First attempt at making a vid with the b'berry...
03:54 pm: [Exhibitionism] More windowshopping...
05:47 pm: [Exhibitionism] Migraine means no real play right now... - 7 comments (on ideas and preferences)
08:13 pm: [Exhibitionism] Pics: variety of stuff... - 16 comments
2nd
03:56 am: [Exhibitionism] Oh, I think I may have figured out a solution... - 14 comments
09:40 am: [Exhibitionism] Requests? - 0 comments w/ Screened
01:33 pm: [Moya] Sex and relationships... - 8 comments
3rd
10:34 am: [Moya] Couples... - 14 comments w/ Screened
4th
12:25 am: [Exhibitionism] Languid. - 13 comments
01:34 am: [Moya] Perplexing... - 9 comments (on sexual dynamics and D/s)
06:21 pm: [Moya] Ah, yay Ferrett! - 3 comments (comments on Ferrett's "Paean To Experienced Women")
10:57 pm: [Exhibitionism] Tinkering - 2 comments (an essay I wrote in 2001 about being a toy geek and my history of sexual exploration)
6th
03:28 am: [Exhibitionism] ...And now for something completely different! - 25 comments (pics of me, mostly clothed)
04:27 pm: [Moya] Test Post - 0 comments w/ Screened (with explanations of the Exhibitionism filter)
07:59 pm: I was laughing too hard to post about it previously... - 13 comments (on the stupid G-spot study)
7th
04:28 am: [Exhibitionism] Learning new things just never stops being fun... - 6 comments
12:19 pm: [Exhibitionism] Bits from the past... - 5 comments (assortment of clips from old sex posts, mostly 2002: about my first post-breakup sex after ending my most serious involvement, on the wonders of drag kings, Explaining why the Moya filter is named what it is, on wanking, pondering what turns me on, thoughts on posting to a sex filter -- still true and relevant, on flogging)
12:44 pm: [Exhibitionism] Repost from 1/07/2003: Random noodling about d/s, s/m, and gender - 4 comments
02:38 pm: [Moya] Repost: Seven years ago or today, it all still applies! - 21 comments
08:16 pm: [Exhibitionism] Repost with commentary - 6 comments (on anal sex)
8th
12:53 pm: [Exhibitionism] Pics: finally not having to hold the camera myself! - 14 comments
06:15 pm: [Exhibitionism] Use me up if you think you can... - 4 comments
08:21 pm: [Moya] Repost: The stories of my piercings - 2 comments
10:56 pm: [Moya] Thanks, Walt... - 12 comments (on how my middle name influenced my sexuality)
9th
05:32 am: [Exhibitionism] Yay! It finally posted! - 19 comments (first vid posting)
06:37 pm: Drag Kings! WHOOHOO! - 2 comments
07:42 pm: [Exhibitionism] Assorted snippets, old and new (text-only) (on partners, and love, and sex, and sharing, and sexual energy; on first sexual experiences, and wrestling with boys; on the joys of anal play; On talking dirty and the practical aspects of sexual communication; on size, strength, and eroticism; Repost from 2004: On Blushing; Repost from 2004: Nipple Pyramids; Repost from 2004: Abducted by aliens; Repost from 2004: On back braces and corsetry; On the fun and weirdness of making my own porn; on the joys of exhibitionism)
10:00 pm: [Exhibitionism] On chemistry and attraction - 8 comments
10th
12:37 am: [Moya] Music and memory - 20 comments
04:23 pm: [Exhibitionism] Just random pics - 18 comments
11th
10:15 pm: [Moya] Sex Ed history and books - 12 comments
12th
12:38 am: [Exhibitionism] I can haz webcam!!!! - 7 comments
02:41 am: [Exhibitionism] On posting public and semi-public smut... - 2 comments
13th
04:01 pm: On Bipolar and sexuality - 2 comments
07:02 pm: [Moya] Well, that was an interesting reread... - 6 comments (on The Sensuous Woman by J)
10:57 pm: [Exhibitionism/Rec Chem] Acidic. - 4 comments (memories of sex on drugs)
18th
06:40 pm: FB is too damned weird... Brainshock processing over here... - 20 comments w/ Screened
19th
06:46 pm: Since there've been a lot of new adds recently... - 7 comments (Sarah 101)
20th
05:01 pm: On being 35 and childfree... - 30 comments
07:52 pm: [Moya] On new discoveries, and being a 'good girl', and fantasy archetypes - 7 comments
21st
02:44 am: [Moya] Thoughts on primary partners and freedom... - 13 comments
07:45 pm: Thoughts on nudism... - 7 comments
09:32 pm: As previously mentioned: Why I write (so damned much) - 4 comments
22nd
05:12 am: [Moya/Rec Chem] On being my own experiment...
29th
12:23 am: [Exhibitionism] Must be quiet. - 2 comments (on new toys)
04:21 am: [Exhibitionism] New vid! - 2 comments
11:44 pm: [Exhibitionism] It's finally up and working! (Vid) - 10 comments
31st
01:19 pm: [Exhibitionism] Feelin' all warm and fuzzy... - 17 comments
February 2010
1st
01:51 am: [Exhibitionism] Patience and porn do not mix. - 5 comments
04:05 am: [Exhibitionism] New vid! - 2 comments
06:17 pm: [Exhibitionism] Random musings and frustrations - 2 comments
2nd
04:59 am: [Exhibitionism] Attempts to make a shorter vid... - 10 comments
07:17 pm: [Exhibitionism] On what I'm enjoying about making vids...
07:44 pm: [Exhibitionism] Home today, and pondering... - 6 comments
3rd
09:42 pm: [Exhibitionism] Hot damn. - 4 comments
4th
12:56 am: [Exhibitionism] Unsensible. - 4 comments
09:15 am: [Exhibitionism] Oh, yay! - 13 comments (Vid post)
04:43 pm: [Exhibitionism] Give you one guess...
09:57 pm: [Exhibitionism] TENS
5th
04:27 pm: [Exhibitionism] Things I dig...
10:39 pm: [Moya/Exhibitionism] Thoughts on boundaries and intimacy...
6th
12:54 am: [Exhibitionism] On being vocal... - 6 comments
04:18 am: [Exhibitionism] It's starting to seem like this is my default filter these days... - 3 comments
7th
12:03 am: [Exhibitionism] A few pics; finally got my backordered toys... - 11 comments
02:32 pm: [Exhibitionism] Personal tastes (in answer to a question) - 12 comments (about porn and activity preferences)
8th
03:58 am: [Exhibitionism] Answer to another question... (on orgasmic patterns)
15th
07:14 pm: Linkety-linkety - 5 comments (included for the large quote from Greta that reflects my views so well)
23rd
06:24 pm: [Moya] Lube recommendation - 18 comments
06:51 pm: [Exhibitionism] Followup post... - 2 comments (on one of my toy experiments)
08:31 pm: [Exhibitionism] Libido vagaries - 5 comments
27th
07:24 pm: [Moya] Quick article link and vid review - 12 comments
March 2010
8th
10:51 pm: As much as I adore Janis, I just can't agree with her... - 14 comments
9th
01:43 am: Sort of a continuation of the previous post, more about social circles and Facebook dynamics - 8 comments
09:08 pm: And the ramble goes on... (on brainmeats and writing and introversion and small-talk) - 2 comments
10:45 pm: More addenda
10th
02:44 pm: On Hook-up culture - 4 comments
03:48 pm: I posted this on FB the other day, and forgot to post it over here... - 4 comments (Greta Christina's Sex Writers, Drooling Horndogs, and the Suspectability of Male Sexuality)
11th
01:11 am: [Exhibitionism] Because I'm both nostalgic _and_ obsessive: - 4 comments
02:23 am: [Moya] On the necessity of boundaries - 2 comments
11:44 am: Villa Villekula and critters - 14 comments
07:38 pm: [Exhibitionism] A series of fantasies - 2 comments
12th
03:09 am: [Exhibitionism] About the vid that'll be posted ASAP. - 4 comments
03:00 pm: [Exhibitionism] New Vid! Yay! - 10 comments
09:21 pm: Linkety-linkety - 8 comments (notable for "Polys vs. Swingers, as viewed from 2010")
13th
05:24 am: [Exhibitionism] On body image and making vids - 2 comments
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Basically, I'm going through my calendar month by month, and creating a specific version of it here; one without all the random small-talk posts and linkety-linketies and all (I mostly skipped purely links and politics and house-hunting records and such), and with added detail on the descriptions as necessary. These are the posts that are substantially about who I am, mostly sexually and relationally, but with some general perspective stuff tossed in about my daily life, fibro stuff, etc. They're also the posts with all the good smut. I'm creating it for my personal use, and to make it easier for people who are getting to know me to find info without wading through my full journal, and so the people who are just here for the smutty bits can find them more easily. Also, since I'm perpetually trying to find patterns in my life and health and sexuality, it'll be interesting for me to see it in the format, and see those on a larger scale.
It's likely to be a long and ongoing project, if I stick with it. So far I've just done 2010, 2 1/2 months, and it's filled up several hours of time. I've been here on LJ since '02. (and I've now gotten May 2009 - Dec 2009 done! Go, me!)
Also, comments on old posts are absolutely welcome!
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August 2008
1st
10:27 am: [private post] (for my own reference)
4th
09:13 am: [Moya] "I'm lucky, you're lucky, we're all lucky!" - 13 comments (on group sex)
01:23 pm: [private post] (for my own reference)
5th
06:42 pm: Was private for some reason (personal ad)
09:37 pm: [Exhibitionism] Fantasy that was originally a private post (fantasy I wrote for a lover)
6th
12:14 pm: [Moya] Back in the Sarah-groove... (long post about sexual needs and relationship dynamics)
12:14 pm: *yay-bounce*, but not going to be online next week, most likely... - 2 comments (tattoo)
03:30 pm: [Moya] Whys and Wherefores... - 12 comments (very long thinky post about relationships and sexuality)
10th
11:48 pm: Tattoo! Tattootattootattoo! - 29 comments
14th
04:33 pm: One hell of a week. (day in the life)
04:39 pm: [Moya] Wow. - 1 comment (very brief "yay" post)
16th
04:04 am: Private memories, M and K
03:44 pm: [Poly Nerves] Gooey. (tight-filtered memories)
23rd
01:09 pm: Life in general (day in the life)
28th
10:21 am: Some of you will want to know... - 9 comments (preparing for my cat Morph's death)
10:59 am: Dealing with death... - 2 comments (how I deal with death in general)
29th
12:21 am: As my brother said: "Wow" - 5 comments (ramblings about my feelings on the Obamas)
September 2008
3rd
08:01 pm: Blah. - 5 comments (day in the life)
5th
10:22 am: Improvements... - 6 comments (day in the life, how I cope with depression)
10th
09:53 am: Life in general, and a few links - 2 comments (day in the life)
14th
07:17 am: Final list of images for ongoing tattoo work... - 14 comments
17th
07:09 pm: Cool stuff... - 3 comments (day in the life)
25th
11:00 am: Haven't been posting much of substance... - 2 comments (depression)
October 2008
2nd
11:30 am: Brief life update... - 12 comments (fibro-coping and day in the life)
12:15 pm: That's more like it... - 3 comments (book-love)
3rd
02:48 pm: Seems like a handy meme... - 4 comments (Answers to many basic questions about my life at this point)
8th
03:11 pm: *snerk* Hoist on his own petard? - 2 comments (politics, household day in the life)
03:37 pm: Yet more ways that I'm thoroughly healthy... - 17 comments (medical troubleshooting)
9th
01:53 pm: Brief life update... (day in the life and couchsurfers)
11th
05:22 am: Pledge-a-Picketer - 8 comments (day in the life)
12th
05:42 am: More couchsurfers! (day in the life)
20th
09:42 am: Stir-crazy - 6 comments (fibro-coping)
21st
11:49 am: Medical rambling - 8 comments (very detailed post about coping with the fibro)
23rd
02:14 pm: *sigh* More medical stuff... - 9 comments (fibro-coping)
24th
02:05 pm: Up side to everything... - 6 comments (fibro-coping)
26th
05:28 am: *eyeroll* - 8 comments (Judd Apatow critique)
November 2008
1st
12:28 pm: at the polls! - 13 comments (day in the life)
3rd
11:39 am: Politics, of course - 11 comments (random political ramblings, and the Obama rally)
11:55 am: Politics and large-group events (a few thoughts about what I love and fear)
4th
09:36 am: So excited. - 9 comments (election)
5th
09:48 am: Politics, of course! - 7 comments (election, and day in the life)
12:24 pm: So. Tired. - 9 comments (fibro-coping)
13th
11:44 am: Damned brain. Damned body. - 12 comments (fibro-coping)
18th
10:03 am: Great birthday... - 4 comments (day in the life and reviews and some commentary on a Greta Christina piece about sexuality)
20th
08:59 am: Fibro rating scale - 4 comments (fibro-coping)
21st
12:34 pm: Oh, my coworkers are awesome! - 8 comments (day in the life)
25th
12:48 am: Dr. Appt today... - 4 comments (fibro-coping)
28th
12:04 pm: Hand advice? - 21 comments (fibro-coping and some thoughts on a few books about sexuality)
December 2008
1st
12:24 pm: Pain Management appt - 12 comments (fibro-coping)
07:22 pm: Infomercial Amusement - 6 comments (on sex-toy infomercials)
07:57 pm: Hooray, and Hooray! - 2 comments (combination of articles and sexuality book review)
2nd
10:08 am: IM/communication heads up... - 2 comments (practicalities of reaching me post -- I've added necessary updates in the last comment)
3rd
09:21 am: Good news, bad news. - 1 comment (fibro-coping)
10:26 am: [Moya Filter] Good things... - 3 comments (fibro-coping and sexuality and new partner)
01:57 pm: Sad Day... (just a noting of Odetta's death; our truck is now named after her)
9th
11:17 am: *sigh* - 2 comments (fibro-coping)
10th
06:24 pm: Hmmm. Well. - 3 comments (longish post on work stress)
11th
10:56 am: Some good things... - 8 comments (fibro-coping)
16th
04:14 pm: *sigh* - 12 comments (fibro-coping)
17th
11:19 am: *whew* Massive Relief. - 4 comments (fibro-coping)
23rd
10:37 am: Weird down here today... - 1 comment (day in the life)
25th
09:12 am: Merry Christmas! (day in the life)
29th
08:54 am: Yay! More dogs! - 6 comments (day in the life)
January 2009
15th
02:21 pm: Brief update - 6 comments
24th
09:58 pm: Home from Nashville (day in the life and seeing family)
30th
10:25 am: Work's hectic, life's quiet - 3 comments (pics of the household dogs)
February 2009
3rd
07:33 pm: Hee! - 7 comments (our household ends up on the news in a piece about communal households)
14th
03:05 am: *defenestrates DVR* - 10 comments (a long post about work and how I look for fun within it)
18th
08:52 pm: Nostalgia... - 2 comments (day in the life during massive work stress)
09:07 pm: And the one other big thing on my mind these days... - 2 comments (on college, and locking doors and the balance of security and openness)
March 2009
5th
03:33 pm: Patience is a virtue. - 16 comments (on my old boss leaving -- mostly notable for making my entire life radically better.)
7th
02:02 am: Tragedy strikes! - 5 comments (huge life-update and dating catch-up)
03:32 am: Documentary: Fat: What No One Is Telling You - 6 comments (long explanation of my feelings about fat, and my body, and ways in which I'm an activist about body acceptance)
18th
10:29 pm: Little rays of political sunshine... - 16 comments (about how the political shift affects my mood)
25th
02:34 pm: In other news... - 2 comments (day in the life)
April 2009
5th
06:06 am: Early. - 6 comments (day in the life)
22nd
10:51 am: Books, movies, links, life in general... - 8 comments (also trip to Cranbrook for G's show)
28th
09:54 am: Netflix: The Story of a Sex Surrogate (review)
May 2009
1st
09:29 am: A few links and a brief update (brief general update about trying to get back in the habit of posting regularly)
4th
02:04 pm: Goodbye, Gramps... - 18 comments
6th
11:00 am: Linkety-linkety, with two specific to Clevelanders - 6 comments (about the erotic film festival that came through Cleveland, and a link to a list of Netflix movies about sexuality)
12th
12:18 pm: Wonderful vacation... - 2 comments (on seeing my girlfriends and my family)
02:48 pm: Villa Villekula - 45 comments (first post about the move -- long and detailed and excited)
09:13 pm: Thank you, Gramps. - 11 comments (about the people in my life making the move possible)
09:33 pm: Balloon art crucifix. No, really. - 8 comments
13th
08:05 am: Happy Hippy Moment... - 4 comments (on family, and friends, and community)
15th
12:03 pm: In what little other news there is... - 2 comments (day in the life)
18th
12:21 pm: Oh, such a full weekend... - 10 comments (the "we found our house!" post with all the details)
21st
08:42 am: Much fun last night -- Catch it in your city! - 5 comments (on the Erotic Short Film Festival and meeting Carol Queen)
22nd
02:36 pm: This IS Villa Villekula! - 18 comments (on finding the house, and general "day in the life")
24th
04:41 pm: It's a beautiful day... - 4 comments (Gramps' funeral, and chosen family)
27th
11:28 am: Not bored. - 2 comments ("day in the life")
12:02 pm: [Moya filter] Patience is a virtue... - 2 comments (on being poly and how that changes relationship timing)
31st
09:06 pm: Spun and muddled... - 14 comments (Dr Tiller's murder)
June 2009
1st
05:58 pm: Dr. Tiller -- Cleveland Memorial Service and Caleb's podcast: (about anger and grief and bullies)
5th
10:56 am: [Moya] I do love it when the house gets all high energy... - 2 comments (brief post on household sexual energy)
10:56 am: Life update - 10 comments (on free speech, and activism, and my community)
8th
12:12 pm: Weekend update... - 6 comments (mostly just "a day in the life")
11th
11:46 pm: Home art project! - 6 comments (on decorating my home, my truck, my body, and my life)
15th
08:27 am: My critters are trying to test my sanity. - 12 comments (day in the life during the move)
01:16 pm: [Moya] When did _that_ happen? - 2 comments (on things I've learned about my dating patterns, and a copy of my CL ad)
04:13 pm: The LJ Brain Trust: What do we know? (meme from jajy1979) - 6 comments (a list of subjects for which I'm a good answer-person)
16th
04:24 am: [Moya] Craving... - 12 comments (detailed post about my kinks and desires and how I navigate finding what I'm seeking)
03:46 pm: Crucial Distinction... - 4 comments (about my limits in relationships, and walking away from one)
06:27 pm: [Moya] As long as I've got sex on the brain... - 4 comments (very detailed explanation of types of sensations I like sexually)
09:26 pm: [Moya] A reply that became its own post... - 8 comments (detailed post about my communication needs in relationships)
17th
05:29 am: Damned weather changes... - 6 comments (Day in the Life during the move)
20th - 5 comments (brief post about being at my tattoo appt in Maine)
21st
04:29 pm: A comment I wrote over in polyamory (what "primary" means for me in a poly relationship)
07:37 pm: New tattoo work! - 4 comments (very detailed post about tattoo work, with links to other relevant posts and images)
22nd
03:03 am: More tattoo pondering... - 6 comments (ideas for future tattoo work)
03:56 am: A reply to a comment (tattoo), plus a bit of additional... (on choosing a tattoo artist)
23rd
10:58 am: This pisses me off... - 4 comments (link to Greta Christina's "What I Learned at my first Orgy")
26th
06:53 pm: Ha! My brothers are going to _love_ this! - 14 comments (research on male figures for my future tattoo plans)
July 2009
3rd
09:05 am: [Moya] Sex meme - 2 comments
02:46 pm: Dating update... - 2 comments (on poly and personal history and placing a personal ad)
7th
04:32 pm: Oh, so very true... - 16 comments (how to meet and woo a nerdy girl)
8th
01:52 pm: Home today, poly rambling... - 14 comments (on how I handle dating and relationships)
10th
03:53 pm: It's Friday, I'm bored and braindead. Have a meme. (ganked from jenx) - 8 comments (random meme about life with not all that much detail that isn't elsewhere)
06:41 pm: A relatively interesting meme... - 14 comments
11th
04:30 am: Critter roll call... - 16 comments (not at _all_ about sex, but definitely a big part of the context of my life!)
29th
08:00 am: GIP! - 4 comments (a bit of nostalgia about my childhood home)
August 2009
4th
03:06 am: Post from the trip home, mostly written Saturday - 2 comments (on family dynamics and the context of my life -- not directly about sex at all)
October 2009
22nd
08:43 pm: Well, that certainly explains a lot. - 12 comments (on fibromyalgia and life)
November 2009
3rd
08:36 pm: Silliness first... - 11 comments (day in the life)
18th
08:04 pm: GIP! - 35 comments w/ Screened (day in the life, and a cat on my head)
19th
01:55 pm: Flaring - 4 comments (day in the life and household stuff)
December 2009
9th
07:04 pm: Haved I raved about Rachel recently? - 6 comments (on geek crushes)
22nd
05:08 pm: Sexy blue love... - 2 comments (brief post about why I like the portrayal of sex in Farscape)
10:43 pm: [Moya] Deliciously achy... - 6 comments (on coming out of a major libido slump)
25th
10:32 am: [Moya] Insanely slow day at work... - 9 comments (on posting a personal ad and thinking about taking vids of myself)
26th
03:10 am: [Moya] Graphic filter - 19 comments w/ Screened (on creating the Exhibitionism filter)
04:40 am: [Exhibitionism] First post - 20 comments (pics and explanation)
08:53 am: [Exhibitionism] Pondering... - 2 comments (on exhibitionism, memories, and plans for the filter)
04:41 pm: [Exhibitionism] What next? - 2 comments w/ Screened
06:11 pm: [Exhibitionism] Wet... - 2 comments (pics)
07:04 pm: [Exhibitionism] And just to get everything up to date... - 4 comments (older pics and ramblings, including about genderqueerness, phone sex and patient-instructing)
07:33 pm: [Exhibitionism] On language... - 6 comments
08:57 pm: [Moya] _This_ is why I've been celibate for months... - 2 comments
27th
06:21 am: [Exhibitionism] Um, yeah. Again... - 14 comments (pics)
06:49 am: [Moya] Things that restore my faith in humanity... - 4 comments (on cybersex)
07:23 am: Two last random things... - 6 comments (on bears and concepts of identity and my tattoo)
03:54 pm: [Exhibitionism] No pics, just rambling about my personal history and tastes - 2 comments
04:19 pm: [Exhibitionism] On tentacles and sci-fi
05:10 pm: [Exhibitionism] Want to know a secret? - 5 comments (on a work crush)
08:59 pm: [Exhibitionism] Didn't actually _mean_ to cyber for seven hours instead of sleeping... - 6 comments (a good deal about interests and tastes and kinks)
09:32 pm: [Exhibitionism] And what's up with all the cybering anyway?
28th
06:07 am: [Exhibitionism] Sleep, please? - 9 comments (on health and sex, and self-consciousness, and porn preferences with xtube links, and a good definition of my sexual preferences described as "intensity freak")
03:47 pm: [Exhibitionism] Toys (windowshopping and plotting)
06:26 pm: [Exhibitionism] More favorite clips - 6 comments (xtube clips and discussion of preferences)
10:16 pm: [Exhibitionism] More clips, this time the rougher side of things... - 2 comments
10:21 pm: [Exhibitionism] Ask a question... - 0 comments w/ Screened (writing prompt post; still fine and encouraged to use!)
29th
01:05 am: [Moya/Exhibitionism] Answer to the first question I received... (question about fisting and safer sex preferences)
02:46 am: [Exhibitionism] So I've gotten at least a bit of sleep (long post about porn and my sexual tastes)
03:21 am: [Moya/Exhibitionism] This made me chuckle... - 2 comments (brief quote about fetishes)
09:08 am: [Exhibitionism] BRC BDSM checklist - 10 comments (with my answers and explanations)
12:41 pm: [Exhibitionism] Oh, I needed that! - 12 comments (pics and talking about excellent sex)
05:21 pm: [Exhibitionism] Also about this morning - 6 comments (about sexual standards and awesome experiences)
30th
12:18 am: [Moya] Cudgel. - 12 comments (short silly post about household conversations and sex toys)
03:39 am: [Exhibitionism] Pics: End of the night play - 20 comments
07:52 pm: [Moya] Prompted by a good conversation with my housemate today... - 3 comments (on gender dynamics, phone sex, exhibitionism, body comfort)
10:47 pm: Good grief, can't fat people just _like_ celery? - 39 comments (on body comfort)
31st
02:03 am: [Moya] Experimentalism, and being a sex geek - 6 comments (including discussion of libido patterns)
05:11 am: [Exhibitionism] windowshopping, and a practical note - 3 comments (extensive plotting about things I could do with my cunt, play and kinkwise)
06:17 am: [Exhibitionism] Fantasy - 11 comments (gangbang fantasy)
06:46 pm: [Moya] It is good to be the King. (plans for making the house more kink-friendly)
07:22 pm: [Moya] Thoughts on ritual and eroticism. - 4 comments
January 2010
1st
01:13 am: [Exhibitionism] Random - 9 comments (pics and info about some of my toys)
04:45 am: [Exhibitionism] Pics: 4am New Year's Day - 14 comments
05:27 am: [Exhibitionism] First attempt at making a vid with the b'berry...
03:54 pm: [Exhibitionism] More windowshopping...
05:47 pm: [Exhibitionism] Migraine means no real play right now... - 7 comments (on ideas and preferences)
08:13 pm: [Exhibitionism] Pics: variety of stuff... - 16 comments
2nd
03:56 am: [Exhibitionism] Oh, I think I may have figured out a solution... - 14 comments
09:40 am: [Exhibitionism] Requests? - 0 comments w/ Screened
01:33 pm: [Moya] Sex and relationships... - 8 comments
3rd
10:34 am: [Moya] Couples... - 14 comments w/ Screened
4th
12:25 am: [Exhibitionism] Languid. - 13 comments
01:34 am: [Moya] Perplexing... - 9 comments (on sexual dynamics and D/s)
06:21 pm: [Moya] Ah, yay Ferrett! - 3 comments (comments on Ferrett's "Paean To Experienced Women")
10:57 pm: [Exhibitionism] Tinkering - 2 comments (an essay I wrote in 2001 about being a toy geek and my history of sexual exploration)
6th
03:28 am: [Exhibitionism] ...And now for something completely different! - 25 comments (pics of me, mostly clothed)
04:27 pm: [Moya] Test Post - 0 comments w/ Screened (with explanations of the Exhibitionism filter)
07:59 pm: I was laughing too hard to post about it previously... - 13 comments (on the stupid G-spot study)
7th
04:28 am: [Exhibitionism] Learning new things just never stops being fun... - 6 comments
12:19 pm: [Exhibitionism] Bits from the past... - 5 comments (assortment of clips from old sex posts, mostly 2002: about my first post-breakup sex after ending my most serious involvement, on the wonders of drag kings, Explaining why the Moya filter is named what it is, on wanking, pondering what turns me on, thoughts on posting to a sex filter -- still true and relevant, on flogging)
12:44 pm: [Exhibitionism] Repost from 1/07/2003: Random noodling about d/s, s/m, and gender - 4 comments
02:38 pm: [Moya] Repost: Seven years ago or today, it all still applies! - 21 comments
08:16 pm: [Exhibitionism] Repost with commentary - 6 comments (on anal sex)
8th
12:53 pm: [Exhibitionism] Pics: finally not having to hold the camera myself! - 14 comments
06:15 pm: [Exhibitionism] Use me up if you think you can... - 4 comments
08:21 pm: [Moya] Repost: The stories of my piercings - 2 comments
10:56 pm: [Moya] Thanks, Walt... - 12 comments (on how my middle name influenced my sexuality)
9th
05:32 am: [Exhibitionism] Yay! It finally posted! - 19 comments (first vid posting)
06:37 pm: Drag Kings! WHOOHOO! - 2 comments
07:42 pm: [Exhibitionism] Assorted snippets, old and new (text-only) (on partners, and love, and sex, and sharing, and sexual energy; on first sexual experiences, and wrestling with boys; on the joys of anal play; On talking dirty and the practical aspects of sexual communication; on size, strength, and eroticism; Repost from 2004: On Blushing; Repost from 2004: Nipple Pyramids; Repost from 2004: Abducted by aliens; Repost from 2004: On back braces and corsetry; On the fun and weirdness of making my own porn; on the joys of exhibitionism)
10:00 pm: [Exhibitionism] On chemistry and attraction - 8 comments
10th
12:37 am: [Moya] Music and memory - 20 comments
04:23 pm: [Exhibitionism] Just random pics - 18 comments
11th
10:15 pm: [Moya] Sex Ed history and books - 12 comments
12th
12:38 am: [Exhibitionism] I can haz webcam!!!! - 7 comments
02:41 am: [Exhibitionism] On posting public and semi-public smut... - 2 comments
13th
04:01 pm: On Bipolar and sexuality - 2 comments
07:02 pm: [Moya] Well, that was an interesting reread... - 6 comments (on The Sensuous Woman by J)
10:57 pm: [Exhibitionism/Rec Chem] Acidic. - 4 comments (memories of sex on drugs)
18th
06:40 pm: FB is too damned weird... Brainshock processing over here... - 20 comments w/ Screened
19th
06:46 pm: Since there've been a lot of new adds recently... - 7 comments (Sarah 101)
20th
05:01 pm: On being 35 and childfree... - 30 comments
07:52 pm: [Moya] On new discoveries, and being a 'good girl', and fantasy archetypes - 7 comments
21st
02:44 am: [Moya] Thoughts on primary partners and freedom... - 13 comments
07:45 pm: Thoughts on nudism... - 7 comments
09:32 pm: As previously mentioned: Why I write (so damned much) - 4 comments
22nd
05:12 am: [Moya/Rec Chem] On being my own experiment...
29th
12:23 am: [Exhibitionism] Must be quiet. - 2 comments (on new toys)
04:21 am: [Exhibitionism] New vid! - 2 comments
11:44 pm: [Exhibitionism] It's finally up and working! (Vid) - 10 comments
31st
01:19 pm: [Exhibitionism] Feelin' all warm and fuzzy... - 17 comments
February 2010
1st
01:51 am: [Exhibitionism] Patience and porn do not mix. - 5 comments
04:05 am: [Exhibitionism] New vid! - 2 comments
06:17 pm: [Exhibitionism] Random musings and frustrations - 2 comments
2nd
04:59 am: [Exhibitionism] Attempts to make a shorter vid... - 10 comments
07:17 pm: [Exhibitionism] On what I'm enjoying about making vids...
07:44 pm: [Exhibitionism] Home today, and pondering... - 6 comments
3rd
09:42 pm: [Exhibitionism] Hot damn. - 4 comments
4th
12:56 am: [Exhibitionism] Unsensible. - 4 comments
09:15 am: [Exhibitionism] Oh, yay! - 13 comments (Vid post)
04:43 pm: [Exhibitionism] Give you one guess...
09:57 pm: [Exhibitionism] TENS
5th
04:27 pm: [Exhibitionism] Things I dig...
10:39 pm: [Moya/Exhibitionism] Thoughts on boundaries and intimacy...
6th
12:54 am: [Exhibitionism] On being vocal... - 6 comments
04:18 am: [Exhibitionism] It's starting to seem like this is my default filter these days... - 3 comments
7th
12:03 am: [Exhibitionism] A few pics; finally got my backordered toys... - 11 comments
02:32 pm: [Exhibitionism] Personal tastes (in answer to a question) - 12 comments (about porn and activity preferences)
8th
03:58 am: [Exhibitionism] Answer to another question... (on orgasmic patterns)
15th
07:14 pm: Linkety-linkety - 5 comments (included for the large quote from Greta that reflects my views so well)
23rd
06:24 pm: [Moya] Lube recommendation - 18 comments
06:51 pm: [Exhibitionism] Followup post... - 2 comments (on one of my toy experiments)
08:31 pm: [Exhibitionism] Libido vagaries - 5 comments
27th
07:24 pm: [Moya] Quick article link and vid review - 12 comments
March 2010
8th
10:51 pm: As much as I adore Janis, I just can't agree with her... - 14 comments
9th
01:43 am: Sort of a continuation of the previous post, more about social circles and Facebook dynamics - 8 comments
09:08 pm: And the ramble goes on... (on brainmeats and writing and introversion and small-talk) - 2 comments
10:45 pm: More addenda
10th
02:44 pm: On Hook-up culture - 4 comments
03:48 pm: I posted this on FB the other day, and forgot to post it over here... - 4 comments (Greta Christina's Sex Writers, Drooling Horndogs, and the Suspectability of Male Sexuality)
11th
01:11 am: [Exhibitionism] Because I'm both nostalgic _and_ obsessive: - 4 comments
02:23 am: [Moya] On the necessity of boundaries - 2 comments
11:44 am: Villa Villekula and critters - 14 comments
07:38 pm: [Exhibitionism] A series of fantasies - 2 comments
12th
03:09 am: [Exhibitionism] About the vid that'll be posted ASAP. - 4 comments
03:00 pm: [Exhibitionism] New Vid! Yay! - 10 comments
09:21 pm: Linkety-linkety - 8 comments (notable for "Polys vs. Swingers, as viewed from 2010")
13th
05:24 am: [Exhibitionism] On body image and making vids - 2 comments
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