This is just tremendously depressing to me. And
this. I don't understand why people think bullying is just part of life. Everyone experiences being pushed around, but the way we as a culture just accept this kind of thing to the point that children are committing suicide because of it . . . that's sick.
It's sick the way that the victims are
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Of course they are; I was told that CONSTANTLY.
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I was bullied, but what affects me more *now* is I was taught to respond to it. Ignore it, turn the other cheek, try to feel sorry for them... To this day, I don't know how to stand up for myself. I'll remember too late that I was supposed to defend myself, or I'll overreact to what I imagine is coming, or I'll just overdo it, or I'll feel like I'm making an ass of myself so I stumble over my own intentions. Still, I keep trying. Damned if I'll live my whole life like I lived the first few decades of it!
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The article is just to upsetting for me to fathom. One word from parents to the little assholes or for that matter from a teacher and this shit would have ended. They like the shit for brains mother who created a myspace account to harsh a girl that was no longer friends for her daughter.
Stupid. Plain Stupid. All those Bullies that contributed to his death need to be punished -- need to know that they committed murder even if they didn't hang the boy, and need to know for the rest of their lives that they took a life because of their hate.
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Your model only works if the bullies already believe that killing is wrong. And that is not an assumption I'm willing to make.
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In short, bully them, since they seem to think it's so damn normal.
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Remove from your vocabulary toward him anything that even hints at the word "just" or "deal with it" or "live with it" in "ignore it." While ignoring it is indeed the goal, it often has a different meaning in the mind of a bullied child. You want him to ignore arrows because they're bouncing off of him, not ignore them sticking through him.
So talk with him, and let him talk; let him know he can let out all the hurt he's feeling to you, without you accidentally giving the impression that it should be easily shrugged off. Let him pour out all the hurt and fear and helplessness he's comfortable sharing with ( ... )
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Fuck that shit.
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My god, it's a wonder I DIDN'T kill myself as a teen. To this day, I hate having my picture taken or looking into mirrors or even looking at people when I talk to them.
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