Comments | darlin_sane: fear is a gold band?

darlin_sane

fear is a gold band?

Mar 10, 2009 02:13

I don't mean for this to come off as h8-core to ANYone on my friends list at all, or anything but ( Read more... )

the future, marriage, crazy me, kids, life, relationships, love

Comments 6

emergingmuses March 10 2009, 06:43:20 UTC

A-freakin-men sister. Seriously, you have encompassed most of my thoughts on these issues which is a super feeling for me because I always feel odd woman out on these topics.

Things may change, you're so very right, but for now, I know you are happy being who you are and doing what you want. There are no ties, no holding you back and it's totally something I respect in women our age. Rah, rah rah!

locatei March 10 2009, 07:17:29 UTC

Ha, yes.
I hear ya.

neonsunflower March 10 2009, 13:15:08 UTC

Everyone is different. Things happen for people at different times...when it's right for them, if it's even right for them. I don't think there is a norm for anything...things happen when they happen.

creepo666 March 10 2009, 15:01:36 UTC

There's nothing wrong with not wanting to have kids. Some people have the parental drive, and others don't. The world is overpopulated enough as is. Don't feel bad for wanting to live your own life. Some people will try to make you feel like you are being selfish for not bringing a new life into the world. But isn't it just as selfish to create a new human being just so you can feel complete? For me, I know it's not what I want and therefore would not be the right decision. If someone wants to have kids, they should have them. If they don't, they shouldn't. Makes complete sense to me ( ... )

from the other side of the spectrum... serialkiller March 10 2009, 15:38:25 UTC

I never had any plans, dreams or intentions of being married and much less having kids. In fact, you sound a lot like I did when I was 25... but then Josh came along and for some reason all those things came and felt natural to do. Sometimes you cannot deny the natural progression of things when you know with 100% certainty that you've found THE ONE. Our marriage isn't a chore, work and we rarely argue, it isn't a hindrance on me and in fact, having him around is the balance my emotions need ( ... )