icon: "exuviate (photo of a dragonfly with shimmery green wings after its last metamorphosis, standing next to its previous exoskeleton)"I haven't felt fully seen by someone other than Topaz in a long time and I yearn for that. I don't know if I'm just bad at sharing or if most people have to feel romantic to actually try to see someone or if
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People in general are difficult to get close to. When I encounter this, I try to remember that I also am often difficult for people to get close to. This makes it a bit easier to understand why other people would be this way. Surely there must be people who've tried to get close to you at various points in your life and you just weren't up for it?
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I can relate to exactly how you feel. Often I have friends that I have known for years tell me that they are too busy. This is unacceptable to me because I am NEVER a difficult person to to spend time with. I make sure I always have adequate time for friends.
I hope that things work out for you.
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I am a single father. Work a forty hour work week that is at a job that is stressful and demanding. I have always had times for others. Maybe it's just the age bracket I am in. Most of my friends are married with kids. I never used that excuse. I am always able to manage my time wisely. Look I even have time for LJ. ;)
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thanks for the well-wishes!
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I've been feeling the same urge to make new friends, but I don't even know where to start. Where do I look? How do I find other people who are looking to make friends too? And i am looking for full time friends, not part time. I have shy tendencies so being aggressive about it is hard for me. :/
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This is exactly how I feel as well.
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This is really so true. I gets harder and harder.
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