Betrayal

[igosm]

 
He's called me to tell me he's spending the night at someone else's house.  He doesn't even give a first name.  It's a woman for certain.  I don't think he'll sleep with her because then he'd know he's a liar, because it's all about meditation and stuff so that makes it okay.  He's Spending the night at some woman's house and that's supposed to be

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[briar_witch]

You are not overreacting. Between his spending the night elsewhere, on Christmas no less, and his being so distant, I'd say the signs are pointing to his leaving you, emotionally, if not physically. Follow your instincts. You may not have proof, but you know what he's really doing.

You're not an idiot either. It's hard to leave someone your emotionally attached to.

[omnamahshivaya]

i went through three divorces. life is better alone. just play with the guys when luck allows.

[candypumpkins]

I can't believe that he spent the night with someone on CHIRSTMAS EVE!!! That's awful if you ask me.

*safe hugs*

Please do what you need to do for yourself, hun. If that means leaving him, then that is what you should do. Don't settle for less than the best because you deserve the best.

[inateadaze]

it sounds like a very difficult situation, but from what you said here, it seems like you know what will be best for you. follow your instincts. you deserve wonderful things.

happy holidays. *hugs*

[snuck]

I really hope it was just a winter solstice thing, and really just 'one glass of wine too many to drive' and he crashed safely on teh couch.

Doesn't help much, but I hope this is what has happened.

<3 safe hugs.

Sorry it's not

[igosm]

He's hanging with his friends because he can't stand to be with me. Dispite the promise of being with me tonight he's over there again. I totally know how this turns out. I hope divorces are less expensive than I think.

Re: Sorry it's not

[snuck]

bugger.

:(

Passes fresh pot of tea and internet cookies.

:( Safe hugs.