well well well- in deez situations I usually am "busy" until the boy backs the eff off! Honestly, you can be a busy bee forever AND get away with it! You are a popular and super loved social butterfly and it's way believable that all of these admirers are sucking up all your time like *the things that suck up dirt from the ocean floor* so do yerr thang girl! Your system is a really good one; totally agreed. If they wanna really be up in your grill, they can walk up three flights of stairs in order to reach that grill and then proceed to communicate with the rest of the amazing people inhabiting that grill until the grill approves or disapproves of said visitor. Mystery is lame.
so i am obvi not the person for advice on this considering the last time it happened maybe i ended up in his room until 2 am, stoned and un com fort a ble, BUTTTTTTT i would like to harken back to an illustrative example from earlier this year: james. or shall i say, yames. anyway it is mad easy to go out one on one and have it not be a date even though the dude clearly wants it to be a date. just MAKE IT NOT A DATE. pay for yourself (there are situations where boy friends can pay for you but if you know they like you, dont let them), do not cuddle them or put yourself within kissing distance...kisstance, mention, casually and with UTMOST SAUVABILITY that you have a boyf. with whom you are valentining. however, this can lead to him Getting The Picture and maybe not wanting to do a second date OR still wanting to hang out more anywayz. either of which should be fine, unless yr tryna have yr ego stroked in which case...i dunno, flirt more or something
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AGREED! You can be busy forever until they take the hint. Especially if they wrangled your number as opposed to just knowing you and getting it, it would not be that big a shabang to just be constantly otherwise occupied. They're not bloodhounds, they're boys.
Also, it seems to me like it wouldn't be that big a deal to just straight up be like "sure let's hang out, i am just ON THE PHONE WITH MY MAIN MAN, i will call you back in an hour after we have phone-bone time"
kick it with them and name drop riley a lot. like in your first conversation. they say, "so what's up?" and you say, "oh i just got off the phone with my boyfriend." something like that. becky's got the same problems except she never actually hangs out with any of the dudes, ahaha.
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well well well- in deez situations I usually am "busy" until the boy backs the eff off! Honestly, you can be a busy bee forever AND get away with it! You are a popular and super loved social butterfly and it's way believable that all of these admirers are sucking up all your time like *the things that suck up dirt from the ocean floor* so do yerr thang girl! Your system is a really good one; totally agreed. If they wanna really be up in your grill, they can walk up three flights of stairs in order to reach that grill and then proceed to communicate with the rest of the amazing people inhabiting that grill until the grill approves or disapproves of said visitor. Mystery is lame.
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Also, it seems to me like it wouldn't be that big a deal to just straight up be like "sure let's hang out, i am just ON THE PHONE WITH MY MAIN MAN, i will call you back in an hour after we have phone-bone time"
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