so i am obvi not the person for advice on this considering the last time it happened maybe i ended up in his room until 2 am, stoned and un com fort a ble, BUTTTTTTT i would like to harken back to an illustrative example from earlier this year: james. or shall i say, yames. anyway it is mad easy to go out one on one and have it not be a date even though the dude clearly wants it to be a date. just MAKE IT NOT A DATE. pay for yourself (there are situations where boy friends can pay for you but if you know they like you, dont let them), do not cuddle them or put yourself within kissing distance...kisstance, mention, casually and with UTMOST SAUVABILITY that you have a boyf. with whom you are valentining. however, this can lead to him Getting The Picture and maybe not wanting to do a second date OR still wanting to hang out more anywayz. either of which should be fine, unless yr tryna have yr ego stroked in which case...i dunno, flirt more or something.
now, if the issue is you feel like you dont know how to hang out one on one IN GEN, well you are lying to both yourself and others because i know for a fact you can SCHMOOZE WITH THE BEST OF THEM (the best being your father) (and dan ruppel).
HOPE THAT YELPS. the conclusion is: if you want to hang out with them, do, if you dont, dont. meghan was right: it is SO easy to be busy forever, in fact you may not even have to lie. also, if you invited him to play music...why not just invite everyone else along (shane etc) too?
now, if the issue is you feel like you dont know how to hang out one on one IN GEN, well you are lying to both yourself and others because i know for a fact you can SCHMOOZE WITH THE BEST OF THEM (the best being your father) (and dan ruppel).
HOPE THAT YELPS. the conclusion is: if you want to hang out with them, do, if you dont, dont. meghan was right: it is SO easy to be busy forever, in fact you may not even have to lie. also, if you invited him to play music...why not just invite everyone else along (shane etc) too?
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