coming from a dude (who finds himself in these sorts of situations):
-being busy forever (especially if you are iffy about actually hanging out) is a MUCH better strategy than having to deal with an awkward hang out where he thinks/wants it to be a date and you dont. so, theres an option. -no offense, but you probably shouldnt have texted the other one! because now hes going to think that you really really do want to hang out and play music and dotdotdot. prepare yourself for an awkward hangout/date thing where youll have to be subtle and suave and name-drop your boyfriend. or, of course, if you and a bunch of friends are going to hang out, you can invite him along. im sure eventually someones going to bring up your boyfriend, and problem solved. -if youre going to feel awkward about it (hanging out) in any way, then just dont do it! you should spend time with people because you want to, not because they do.
if you want these situations to not develop any further, i would suggest the im-busy-forever method. i feel like i had more to say but cant really think of anything. HOPE THIS HELPS
-being busy forever (especially if you are iffy about actually hanging out) is a MUCH better strategy than having to deal with an awkward hang out where he thinks/wants it to be a date and you dont. so, theres an option.
-no offense, but you probably shouldnt have texted the other one! because now hes going to think that you really really do want to hang out and play music and dotdotdot. prepare yourself for an awkward hangout/date thing where youll have to be subtle and suave and name-drop your boyfriend. or, of course, if you and a bunch of friends are going to hang out, you can invite him along. im sure eventually someones going to bring up your boyfriend, and problem solved.
-if youre going to feel awkward about it (hanging out) in any way, then just dont do it! you should spend time with people because you want to, not because they do.
if you want these situations to not develop any further, i would suggest the im-busy-forever method. i feel like i had more to say but cant really think of anything. HOPE THIS HELPS
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