This is actually inspired by a series of rather heated discussions in a group on FaceBook.  I'll be linking this post to that group when I'm done but I wanted to post it here because the topic DOES come up pretty often ( Read more... )

I know, I've gotten awful about posting updates.  I've just honestly been that busy!  I finally took a 3-day weekend for myself this week.  This is day 3 and I'm really wishing I had a week off, instead of 3 days.  Ah well, I'll have the week off later this year. Must save up my vacation time so I can go and finally meet my grandson!

( Kids and Grandson )

I've talked the idea of finding a sub over with Cw.  Last night I talked it over with a friend who gives good insight on my thought processes.  I've been thinking directly about the entire concept all week.  I even gave myself a list of questions to consider.

The questions I asked were about my motivations, expectations, what I have available ( ( Read more... )

I'm thinking seriously about starting to date again after I get a car, which will happen within the next four weeks.  I'll have the freedom to get myself around to places and go without needing a ride or relying on bus schedules.  I'll also have my work schedule set finally.  Training will be out soon, thus the need for a car after seven yrs ( Read more... )

Awesome thing I was told today: You make me feel so much like a man. (Out of the clear blue nowhere while we were talking ( Read more... )

I suppose I could try to get better at posting them more often.

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Totally a poly thing but ( Read more... )

This is somewhat a follow-up to my previous post and the edit I posted to it.  I apologize in advance to anyone with sensitivities to the subject matter.  I'll put everything under a cut with a warning that it's NSFW, NSFK (please be over 18), and a bit personal and even that the topic has been known to make people twitch and assume things about me ( Read more... )