Wow. AKA I'm dissapointed

[aiyokusama]

So I was asked what prompted my BDSM rant.  And I was vague in my answer because honestly, I'm not out to flame anyone.  Or shame them.  But I think I will give the specifics now because I posted my comment (after having two people look it over and help me NOT sound like a bitch) and I got a rather disappointing PM back

Comments

[seraphim_grace]

i got caught up in one of those, the fic was a bdsm au where the government had the right to choose the dominant for the submissive and the dominant could have up to five but the submissive had no say in it, and i told her that she needed to warn for sexual slavery and she outright told me it wasn't
i told her if she wanted ot write that it was fine but she needed to warn for non/con, dubcon and sexual slavery because it really was, because a dominant could ask for a submissive and get them despite submissive protest or even parental protest, and she told me I didn't understand bdsm aus
then everyone else backed me and her trolls came along accusing me of blacklisting her

you cant' win with these people, all you can do is educate them and hope they take some advice before someone ends up in the hospital

[aiyokusama]

Oh wow o.o that is positively terrifying. The fic and the response.

And yes. That's pretty much why I posted the comment on her fic in the hopes that someone will come along, read it and go "Oh!"

[seraphim_grace]

I tried to explain to her that she had it ass over tea kettle

[aiyokusama]

Less sexy?! o.o What the fuck?!?! *brain implodes

[seraphim_grace]

scissoring is when the top spreads his fingers whilst fingering or stretching, it can actually split the sphincter and it does not exist outside of fanfic, i can sort of understand where it came from but it's like the worst trope ever, because in no way is it attractive, and it would hurt both of them (you put your fingers in an elastic band and spread them

[aiyokusama]

Oooh, that one. Yeah, I'vee been bitchign about tropes lately. Kissed breathless is one of mine....ARG!!!!

I LOVE AO3. The quality over there is just so much better.

Thanks for the recs! *scurries off to read*

[seraphim_grace]

this is one of my favourites

http://savoytruffle.livejournal.com/98487.html

and it's sequel
which is linked on it

it's nu!trek, but you could actually substitute most people into the roles because it's about people not situations
but Kirk decides that Bones will be his wingman, not realising bones has amazing game