humor me....

1. if you have ever moved in with a person you were in a relationship with, did it have any direct effect on the outcome of that relationship?

2. if so, good or bad, what effect did it have?

here's some pics that amy or i took over the last coupla outtings....

( click me, before i break you! )

i've been getting hung up lately on the concept of living in the moment. it seems easy for me to find ways in which this would be a bad idea. i think if everyone were living in the moment and had no thought for the past or future then one would invariably make the same mistakes or one would neglect the 'necessity' of going to work so that they ( Read more... )

good god i hate public speaking. i salute all of you with iron testicles and/or ovaries that can just get up there in a speech class or soapbox or whatever and get your information out with confidence. i guess if i'm ever going to be a teacher this shit is important, though i know it'd become easier as time passes with the same group of folks. ( Read more... )

i got laid off! yessss, i didn't like the job but getting to work at home and make my own hours was priceless, but now i can get something fun AND low paying! so to celebrate my last paycheck and fat severence dealie, i bought pizza, a bottle of port and will now have more time to devote to the absurd addiction that is Knights of the Old Republic ( Read more... )

just watched supersize me..... two things: wow, that's some scary stuff. and god i want a jumbo jack and a super scoop of seasoned curly fries and a 7 piece stuffed jalapeno poppers from jack n the box..... is there a fast food anonymous? i haven't eaten any since the summer time but good god, it sounds goo-ood!

had to show off my new icon, and just to put something else in here.... if you've never read any neil gaiman books or graphic novels.... SHAME! SHAME ON YOU! that is all.

so my (i say my but i mean my anonymous neighbors) wireless connection is screwy, or they don't like me using it, so either way that means my internet time is somewhat unpredictablle, and so posts will be too. hope all is going well with everyone.

realization #1 about not drinking for 5 out of 14 days: i was irritable the first couple of days.... #2 i don't know how to have fun in social gathering type settings..... warning, warning will robinson! i would like to be able to bring out the social, unconcerned, happy man that pops out when drinking, while not drinking.... that'd be nice ( Read more... )

went to a show at a cafe to see my friend boytiger, her brother, who's also amazing, and a girl with accompanyment by boy called aubrey debauchery, it was much fun. i always love hearing B's stuff, her voice will knock socks off, for certain. and it was strange that even though i'd heard her stuff only once before i was really familiar with the songs ( Read more... )