I am so sorry you have to deal with that sort of bullshit at all, but it is completely off the deep end of sane for him to do this to you ON YOUR BIRTHDAY. Gah.
Well, like I replied in like, ALLLLLLL the comments, he lashed out because his grades from the previous quarter (where he didn't do well at school because we were breaking up all quarter) were terrible and he said some mean shit. He apologized but he's still angry (I mean, he does have a right to be angry that his grades are bad and I *DO* take some ownership of the fact that I played a part in that) so we aren't talking so much until we can be nice.
I spoke with him the next day, when he was less angry. He'd gotten his grades back from the previous quarter, while we were going through the breakup, and they were far less than stellar. He was angry, he didn't know what to do, lashed out, and apologized.
I'm happy to hear about the rebuilding parts, and that you're getting back on your feet again.
However, WHAT IN THE UNGODLY FUCK is wrong with him, to say those things at all, much less on your birthday!!?! You don't deserve to be treated that way, and I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that kind of hurtful and unbalanced treatment.
I love you, sugar -- and I hope that this birthday signals a sea change for you, a swing of the pendulum into happier times. You have all of my wishes for health, happiness, and abundance in your life.
On my birthday because that's when he got his grades from the previous quarter. They were really, really, not good.
He lashed out. The next day he wasn't as angry. He apologized for lashing out, but said that he was still angry and we shouldn't talk until he's not as angry.
Since, we've socialized at events and talked a bit via text or whatnot.
It took about a day for him to stop being so angry. He apologized. We don't chit chat via text or anything but we can be social with each other in the same space. Thankfully.
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What a dick move. Who the fuck does that??
I am so sorry you have to deal with that sort of bullshit at all, but it is completely off the deep end of sane for him to do this to you ON YOUR BIRTHDAY. Gah.
You deserve so much better than this.
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However, WHAT IN THE UNGODLY FUCK is wrong with him, to say those things at all, much less on your birthday!!?! You don't deserve to be treated that way, and I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that kind of hurtful and unbalanced treatment.
I love you, sugar -- and I hope that this birthday signals a sea change for you, a swing of the pendulum into happier times. You have all of my wishes for health, happiness, and abundance in your life.
*big cushy Andi-hugs*
-- A <3
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He lashed out. The next day he wasn't as angry. He apologized for lashing out, but said that he was still angry and we shouldn't talk until he's not as angry.
Since, we've socialized at events and talked a bit via text or whatnot.
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