I don't think I managed to convey my feelings in my last post- just why they are possible. I feel like Topher and I are capable of being on a 2-person ship through life together. That is the image I get. Yes, we both have much that we want to do apart from each other, and many friends and projects, but I feel a sense of comfortable union that I ( Read more... )

Recent events bring in to sharp relief once again just how lucky I am. When I came home last night, exhausted from faire, I gave my honey a kiss and went straight to the shower to decontaminate. Topher was a sweetheart and parked the car ( Read more... )

*Bounce bounce bounce*

Today:
got to talk with rich_herds_cats over Skype (he's in Sweden). A friend from Scotland- long time no talk.

soulrefraction got promoted! He's now a level 9 tech (doesn't that smack of a company run by roleplayers?). Level 10 is the highest on that chain and there's only a handful (like 6?) of those, so for less than a year in the company when ( Read more... )

I have such a wonderful sweetheart. I don't feel like I need any more birthday stuff. He's wonderful. The fact that I can get up this early and still feel so happy and content.... purrrrrrr.

As of Saturday night, Topher and I are officially engaged.

Not a surprise to those of you who have been hearing much from me lately. Still, to make why as clear as I can... ( Read more... )

The weekend was awesome! I stopped in to Gerri's Birthday for a moment to give her a cake and got to see her and Carmel, then met soulrefraction at his work and we headed down the coast for Monterey. Beautiful hotel on the ocean- complete with waves, sea gulls and harbor seal sound effects. The balcony overlooked the water, and the hotel thoughtfully provided ( Read more... )

Despite all the insanity that a certain girl is throwing out right now, and being a bit ready to throttle her this morning for refusing to take responsibility for her life and being nasty and ungrateful to my love, I am stupidly, wonderfully happy. We both are. I have never encountered the phenomina of shedding tears of joy at simply being with ( Read more... )

I am writing less about that because I feel like I'd be bragging if I included any detail. And it's actually more private to me. But basically, soulrefraction makes me incredibly happy, every day.

I've feel I've been a bit remiss with my friends/social stuff lately. I haven't had my ringer on nearly all weekend or even turned the computer on until now. soulrefraction and I did help eqe and linley move on saturday, but I missed David's birthday (feel especially bed for that- we took too long moving and still had out day stuff and then got...distracted), and Nimby ( Read more... )

One of my strategies for keeping track of myself with relationships was to make a list. I've been thinking about it and making a mental one since I heard about Foo's list at the begining of Faire, and 2 days ago, I wrote it down ( Read more... )