Comments | threadwalker: happy- reflections cont.

threadwalker

happy- reflections cont.

Oct 23, 2006 10:41

I don't think I managed to convey my feelings in my last post- just why they are possible. I feel like Topher and I are capable of being on a 2-person ship through life together. That is the image I get. Yes, we both have much that we want to do apart from each other, and many friends and projects, but I feel a sense of comfortable union that I ( Read more... )

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stellae October 23 2006, 20:11:09 UTC

*grin*

So happy for you. :-)

threadwalker October 24 2006, 03:34:48 UTC

Thanks. :) Me too!

evilgerbil October 23 2006, 21:08:11 UTC

Aww. I congratulate you on that. Not without a little tiny bit of envy, though. I'm turning into such a crotchety old maid at a young age, all particular and independent. I hope such loveliness awaits me when I'm done gallavanting around.

threadwalker October 24 2006, 03:34:29 UTC

I was feeling like a crotchety old maid right up to meeting him. You never know- as long as you hold a space open, is possible. I suppose it's about openess without expectations.

asakiyume October 24 2006, 04:08:15 UTC

hahahaha, crotchety old maid in your 20s **dies laughing**

okay, I'm going to go get my rheumatism cream now...

skiptomylou October 23 2006, 21:39:13 UTC

Can I marry you and Topher?

threadwalker October 24 2006, 03:33:44 UTC

as in perform the ceremony, or join in? :)

asakiyume October 24 2006, 04:07:08 UTC

Wow, it's really great how, in your earlier relationships, you learned something that helped you move forward--you are so perceptive! I love that you've got such a good relationship now. It's a pleasure to read about ♥

threadwalker October 24 2006, 18:37:09 UTC

thanks. :)

The journey image is a powerful one vinilaa October 26 2006, 00:06:17 UTC

And, although I'm the first to aver that I'm (most emphatically) NOT an expert when it comes to matters of the heart... I've only recently removed mine from a very deep freeze (it's still in defrost mode)... I think that when a relationship (partnership?) works well, it works very much in the way that you've described.

Congratulations again. :)

Re: The journey image is a powerful one thecompassrose October 28 2006, 05:43:35 UTC

You're so lucky that to your own self you are true. I've learned so much from past relationships, and learned things like relationships cannot be built on intellect alone, or sex alone, but I feel lately like I'm hiding behind a sort of mask, being all wild and outgoing and passionate when in truth I'm scared. I think I'm comfortable with myself, but I also feel like a decrepit old spinster some days, and am trying desperately to outrun it (sorry this is turning into being about me) I just telling myself not to force a relationship with someone, because when the right person comes along (space open as you said) it will all fall into place. I don't know. I miss you.

Re: The journey image is a powerful one threadwalker October 30 2006, 18:28:14 UTC

There was a point or two when I was feeling like a "decrepit old spinister" too. Then I had the lovely example of my mother- 60, new husband, learning to ride a motorcycle, taking on a new job in a new state... We are so much younger, with so much ahead ( ... )