The Situation.

[tendrils]

The Beginning
It would be almost impossible to be unaware of the drama that's been going on lately.
To this point, I've tried to stay out of it, but am now finding it impossible to do so.
Unlike other posts, this won't be a brief 'please stop the fighting', but rather the most complete dissection of the situation that I can muster.
In fact, this will

Comments

[jebila]

Just for clarification, the first time I remember seeing Em and Nay that night was as I passed them in the hallway (I think you guys had just come back from getting speakers??) and I looked at Nay, she gave me a filthy look and walked straight past me. I didn't see Em's face directly but since she waked straight past me too, I would assume hers would have been the same. Silly assumption I know. Besides, I had no glasses on that night so there's every possibility that I walked past lots of people that night and didn't say anything

[magenta_babylon]

The rift with Em and Loz had been there for quite some time, I think Em was just cranky that I was having fun with someone who also shared a dislike of her. Loz and I are actually quite close friends, and regardless of the shared connection, would have been spending most of the night together anyway.

Last time I spoke to Loz was months ago at the Cambridge when we sat out in the lounge area and had a massive D&M about Ten and a few worries that she had, issues resulting from he and I getting together. I left that conversation thinking that everything was sorted and rather relieved that she seemed disposed towards friendship... but I must have been wrong in that.

Confused as to what this 'rift' thing is about, as far as I was aware Loz and I were on civil terms. If that changed, she's certainly never let me know about it.

But each to their own, I have no problem with your friendship with her, or its foundation of shared dislike.

[magenta_babylon]

You know how you can say a word over and over and over again and it stops making sense? That's with "bitching" in this post.

I've tried calling a truce with you, de-friending you, and still you shadow my every online move. Yet for all your comments, words and words and words, you have still managed to not once touch upon the one thing I actually want to know from you. Why do you take my allergy so personally

[jebila]

I shadow your every online move??? How so?? I'm don't understand where that comes from

[magenta_babylon]

Remember the party you never came to that we made gluten free cheesecakes for?Bit hard to remember cheesecakes from a party that I didn't attend. This has to be about the sixth time you have recriminated me in some way for failing to attend your housewarming. I was sick. Get over it. Actually by your way of thinking you should be proud of me for taking the responsible option of staying home the day after sticking a needle into my leg, rather than partying with my friends

[jebila]

Ok, I'm bowing out.

I've tried to reason with you, but its pretty clear that no amount of talking will make you see that you were partly in the wrong. So rather than sit around waiting for an apology, I'm going to get on with my life.

I hope you can do the same.

Sunshine.