Comments | siren52684: i'm going to be single forever

siren52684

i'm going to be single forever

Dec 20, 2006 12:31

my company's christmas party on monday, so i psyched myself up for about a week, and asked the boy i've been smitten with since this summer if he wanted to browse the open bar and point and laugh at my drunk coworkers with me ( Read more... )

boys, angst, dating, insecurity

Comments 10

likealion December 21 2006, 19:33:10 UTC

*hugs*

I'd say he's passing up a great opportunity. ;)

iterative_steps December 21 2006, 22:11:29 UTC

he will kick his own ass when he realizes what he's done

evilcat84 December 21 2006, 23:55:49 UTC

I'm pretty sure this guy is a pussy and you're better off without him. From my end the facts look as such:

1. You unofficially dated this guy and had awesome fairy tale kisses.
2. You were smitten but unsure of his feelings because he was a hard-to-read pansy.
3. He was such a flake that you didn't act to make things official.
4. He breaks your heart.

1+2+3+4 = He's a big fat jerk who used you and led you on. If he weren't such a pussy, he would've made his feelings clear. But he is, and he didn't, and therefore he's scummy for pulling this shit.

Don't get me wrong, I'd be intimidated by someone who's as hot and fabulous as you are, too. But he needs to grow a set because he passed up something great. He'll realize it eventually.

*hugs*

anonymous January 3 2007, 00:30:10 UTC

hugs. ok, there was this guy that I dated sort of for like a month and a half sophmore year. He was gorgeous and we had like 3 or 4 amazing dates where you stay out all night and have fun talking to each other. So I really liked this guy. Then he just stops calling me. I had to do all the effort and finally when I asked him what the hell was going on he was like, "oh well, i just got out of a relationship/i'm graduating soon... blah blah blah" Just being lame basically. I was crushed. I think I bawled a whole bunch and then decided no more guys for a while, they suck ass. Then like a month later, I met Paul, the guy I married. And you know what? HE CALLED ME!! HE MADE AN EFFORT! I didn't have to sit around the damn phone waiting because he was nuts about me and let me know it. Don't date a guy that wont. He needs to do the work and realize you're fabulous or he's outta there. Things work out. You may think you found the perfect guy but in reality they just suck ass. Cut your losses and you'll meet the guy that will ( ... )