i'm going to be single forever

[siren52684]

my company's christmas party on monday, so i psyched myself up for about a week, and asked the boy i've been smitten with since this summer if he wanted to browse the open bar and point and laugh at my drunk coworkers with me

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[anonymous]

hugs. ok, there was this guy that I dated sort of for like a month and a half sophmore year. He was gorgeous and we had like 3 or 4 amazing dates where you stay out all night and have fun talking to each other. So I really liked this guy. Then he just stops calling me. I had to do all the effort and finally when I asked him what the hell was going on he was like, "oh well, i just got out of a relationship/i'm graduating soon... blah blah blah" Just being lame basically. I was crushed. I think I bawled a whole bunch and then decided no more guys for a while, they suck ass. Then like a month later, I met Paul, the guy I married. And you know what? HE CALLED ME!! HE MADE AN EFFORT! I didn't have to sit around the damn phone waiting because he was nuts about me and let me know it. Don't date a guy that wont. He needs to do the work and realize you're fabulous or he's outta there. Things work out. You may think you found the perfect guy but in reality they just suck ass. Cut your losses and you'll meet the guy that will treat you like a princess. Cuz you are one and are fabulous and deserve to be treated as such.

jilly
p.s. look at the clothes horse again she will make you laugh.