Comments | siren52684: vanity & vaginas

siren52684

vanity & vaginas

Jul 29, 2006 19:31

last night, my dear and wonderful best friend in the universe (andrea) threw a shindig, and i felt compelled to go and drink. and there was an amazing turnout of people, some of whom were awesome, some of whom i wanted to slap across the face. one of these people that i wanted to hit decided that he wanted to talk to me about what a nice guy he is ( Read more... )

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siren52684 July 30 2006, 04:56:34 UTC

rake

nice guys... anonymous July 30 2006, 02:58:21 UTC

If he's that nice of a guy, he wouldn't whine about it. Nor would he have to point out to people how nice he is.

Re: nice guys... siren52684 July 30 2006, 04:57:23 UTC

he sobered up by the end of the night and was SO much better. i just think he's a whiney drunk.

Re: nice guys... szasz July 30 2006, 06:29:04 UTC

I've been there, and been damn embarrassed about it later. Having low self-esteem while sober can translate into some really pathetic moping and whining while drunk.

Re: nice guys... siren52684 July 30 2006, 06:52:22 UTC

so so true.

cue the "getting over a breakup" flashback...

ex_fusional145 July 30 2006, 04:19:46 UTC

girls "like" nice guys, they just don't want them. i'm not even talking about the doormat thing because that's a whole different ballgame. i'm talking about the fact that the majority of girls will go after trashy asshole scumbag pieces of shit (like kevin federline!) with a billion and one flaws, because girls like to fix things. girls like to think they can change people (obviously not realizing that they aren't really trying to change someone objectively for the better but more to their own tastes). girls like a "challenge". they're impulsive, flighty creatures and guys that just don't have anything that needs changing bore them. guys that don't keep them on their toes (a lot of girls don't seem to realize that a guy being unpredictable and thus "fun" doesn't exactly outweigh the longterm cons of him being a degenerate), blase blase etc. and the like ( ... )

siren52684 July 30 2006, 05:00:06 UTC

i pretty much agree with this whole spiel. especially the bit where "girls like trashy asshole scumbags....because girls like to fix things." you're pretty much preaching to the choir on that one.

however. sometimes we DO like nice boys. they just have to be ridiculously attractive. and maybe have to have a little bit of an asshole streak.

ex_fusional145 July 30 2006, 07:55:18 UTC

^_^

mathwhiz78 July 30 2006, 04:47:05 UTC

Have I mentioned lately that I love you?

siren52684 July 30 2006, 05:00:34 UTC

not lately, no. ;-)

mathwhiz78 July 30 2006, 05:16:00 UTC

well, i love you.

siren52684 July 30 2006, 05:26:35 UTC

well, awesome.

squirrelallie July 30 2006, 04:51:06 UTC

"I'm still friends with all my ex's and they treat me like shit!"

A guy who genuinely believes himself to be all Nice Guy to the point that that's his defining characteristic is, without exception, a stalker.

siren52684 July 30 2006, 05:02:08 UTC

one day he'll snap and go to jail and it'll be like some kind of law and order episode where he thought he was helping/hugging her, and instead he was strangling her and he didn't even know it.

squirrelallie July 30 2006, 05:33:53 UTC

Yes Lennie, there will be fields and fields of rabbits.

siren52684 July 30 2006, 05:49:38 UTC

woo steinbeck.