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[divaricatore]

Okay...

... for research purposes

How do guys do it?

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[fortebrezza]

Do what now?

[divaricatore]

Sex.

[fortebrezza]

...you're kidding. Right? This is some kind of joke.

[divaricatore]

I don't usually joke.

[pink_sake]

Very gently. It's a common misconception that men have the higher pain threshold, when in fact it's the fairer sex that is made of much more rugged and durable material.

So when courting a man, exceptional care must be taken in preparation, lubrication, and execution.

Foreplay is entirely dependent on the men, some guys, it's a must have, others find it too fussy. You'll have to play this one by ear.

However, lube is the most important thing. Petrol-based lubricants resist drying out, however they're a bother to clean up and can damage laytex protection. Water based is easy to clean up, but it might need reapplication for multiple frolics. Be generous with application.

Then massage and stretch your lover until they're satisfied with the job.... then from there it's about the same, really. You'll know you're doing something right.

Good luck, my friend!

[divaricatore]

I see. So gentleness is the key.

What is this foreplay? Is it something like a test run?

Where can I purchase these lubricants?

What techniques are needed for massaging and stretching?

[pink_sake]

Exactly.

Things such as Oral Sex, Fingering, Handjobs, Using toys.

Pretty much anything you can imaging doing with anything down there, short of the actual act of intercourse.

Standard lubricants can be purchased along with protection at the grocer, speicality lube has to be purchased online or though an adult retailer.

...hm. Well, I suppose it's like stretching a gasket so it doesn't snap or tear.

[divaricatore]

I see...

This doesn't seem too complicated. I would like to practice, but it's not a good idea to practice on him...

[myscarsmiles]

For research purposes?

[divaricatore]

... Yes.

[myscarsmiles]

Is this a hands-on sort of methodology?

[divaricatore]

I hope to be getting some hands on experience after I've studied the concepts.

[witchactually]

... Maybe you should try a self-help book?

[divaricatore]

I heard this kind of thing could only be accurate with personal experience... so I'm asking around, just to see what I get.

[witchactually]

Well... If you're looking for personal experience, which I probably don't have as much of as I should considering, I think the best advice is to take it slow and, uhm... Figure it out together.

[divaricatore]

Well, he is a nervous wreck, so I'd rather not do anything that would scare him. Better to know what I'm getting into first.

[lexologist]

I am unsure of what it is you are trying to research, otherwise I would be happy to assist.

[divaricatore]

I believe the term for it is "Gay Sex."

Or whatever they call it.

[lexologist]

Ah. I see. And your intents are merely clinical?

[divaricatore]

No. I'm in a relationship with someone.