South Korea's 4B movement going viral after Trump’s win

Nov 10, 2024 23:58


‘No man will touch me until I have my rights back’: why is the 4B movement going viral after Trump’s win? https://t.co/II8St8H9w6
- The Guardian (@guardian) November 7, 2024

  • The 4B movement is going viral on social media after Trump's win this week, with many girls and women encouraging each other to avoid dating and physical contact with men as ( Read more... )

feminism / social issues, activism / protest, politics

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therearewords November 11 2024, 11:00:44 UTC
FWB?

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goshipgurl November 11 2024, 12:47:56 UTC

Friends with benefits

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therearewords November 11 2024, 13:05:17 UTC
Lol yes, that's my suggestion. Oh, they deleted!

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epicdonald November 11 2024, 11:40:01 UTC
I just got out of a relationship that lasted a few months and even halfway into it I told a friend that if the relationship ended I didn’t think I felt like trying to find another boyfriend. And she got all “no don’t give up!!!” But it’s hard to see the point of dating men and it feels like every year it gets worse ( ... )

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mzgrottesca November 11 2024, 11:59:37 UTC
Porn, particularly the gonzo style shit that's be big for the last ~10-15 years has ruined sex for everybody tbh. I mean, I can't say that personally since I never existed in the pre-porno world, but sooo many studies have been done showing declining sexual satisfaction in relationships with heavy porn consumption and people under 40.

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epicdonald November 11 2024, 12:07:05 UTC
Yeah most guys I’ve been with won’t really be transparent about how often they watch it, but I do remember the first guy I dated who consistently couldn’t orgasm admitted that he wanted to watch it less often and wasn’t able to.

Also apparently plastics/microplastics screw with your hormones and have been linked to ED so that’s swell 🫠

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ahkna November 11 2024, 12:47:14 UTC

A lot of men and boys (!!!!!) who have been caught with child sexual abuse media have used the excuse that they needed their porn to get more and more extreme in order to orgasm. It's extremely fucked up.

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merel_93 November 11 2024, 12:11:05 UTC

Sometimes I do wonder if I just got really lucky with a man who has never not once seen me as someone to make his life easier just because I´m a woman. I´ve made it very clear up front that I expect 50/50 and he has always lived by that.

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goshipgurl November 11 2024, 16:46:15 UTC
How does it feel like to be God's favorite

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they_marry November 11 2024, 21:15:03 UTC
Same. I was on dating websites before the apps came out and I truly think that that was the last of the good men out there. My friends send me screenshots of the messages they get and I cannot fucking fathom the audacity to be so entitled. Men ain’t shit.

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xtinkerbellax November 11 2024, 12:28:11 UTC
Semi related, I wonder if we'll see a continued swing to the right with the differences in the right and left when it comes to having kids. People on the right seem obsessed with having 6 kids while a lot on the left wont have any. And then with the right also being into homeschooling I dont know how many of those kids will end up with different views than they were taught. I feel like I'm going to see this country continue to get more conservative as I age and I hate that.

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gillenvillain November 13 2024, 02:56:28 UTC
Fucking Idiocracy, right here. I hate that the movie is turning into a documentary.

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ahkna November 11 2024, 12:46:06 UTC

I get it. America is one of the most dangerous nations for women in the world, like top 10 among Saudi Arabia and India, mostly because of access to guns.

Murder was already the #1 cause of death of pregnant women, but add in abortion bans and getting pregnant is very seriously risking your life.

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