Gonna suck a dick today, yup.

Brand new penis for me.

And this time, I feel much more in control.

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When a relationship ends for me, I often feel the same as when someone close to me has passed away. It's not that the person has died, but that the relationship has. And I miss the relationship, and so, I grieve for it ( Read more... )

2011 was a wonderful year of personal exploration of promiscuity, it's true. And overall, I had a great year. I enjoyed myself. I smiled a lot. I made many close friends and lover-friends. Relationships that still exist today, even if over long distances, and that I'm sure won't soon disintegrate ( Read more... )

Seriously?

So I've been away from the interwebz for a month and have much to catch up with. One of my favorite things to do is search Google News for "polyamory" and related terms, and see what pops up.

And, of course, I read the comment threads on what pops up, too.

And I was reading a few articles, and seeing the usual commentary. Comments on ( Read more... )

Home, home, home, and already buying tickets to leave in a month to the new job on the East Coast (not that new, I guess...same place, different position. Moving up in the world, yay!). I'm beginning to feel less and less of a sense of "home" when I come back to this place, as I've been spending less and less time here ( Read more... )

Having a wonderful time in the UK, though I am getting genuinely tired. Hopefully I will be more refreshed when I arrive in Madrid tomorrow, and don't have a hard time enjoying this last week of my little tour ( Read more... )

Had my last All-You-Can-Eat wings Hooters gathering before my trip tonight, and it was fun. The Chef came and joined and, of course, had to be all caught up on the great stories which are a part of our little group's history. He later told me that he really enjoyed himself; hopefully he hangs out with them more even while I'm gone, because I know ( Read more... )

It feels like just days ago that I posted that I had bought my tickets to Europe and would be gone in just under a month. Now I'll be gone in a week. I've been so busy that time has flown by, and I feel utterly unprepared for the trip.

But that's okay. I'm a take-it-as-it-comes kind of girl.

The Chef and I have become affectionate, though we know it ( Read more... )

I have become lazy with my writing over the past few years, and perhaps it is time that I work on that. It might just lift my mood and sense of purpose ( Read more... )

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