Boujie lesson #2: E.B.M. (Educated Black Male) - An individual of African descent who as acquired proffessional or academic degrees in such field as Medicine, Law, Business, or Philosophy. This may include (but is not limited to) the Succesful Black Male who actually makes some sort of money. The SBM is not to be confused with the subset of the EBM ( Read more... )

I love getting comments to my posts. Recently I received a message from one of my readers. I responded, but the question as unusual as it was, made me think how perfect it would be for this week's post. Now... while I may not be promiscuous, as per an earlier post I do admit that I'm not a virgin. Things and life happen. That life has taught me ( Read more... )

So my faithful readers. I am pleased to grace you with yet another blog post.

"Two in as many days?"

Why yes. Though apparently my ire has once again been raised in yet another scandalous scenario. This time with an assumed friend who... Well let me go to the start of it:

My male friends which I speak to often know how I can get about a girl. I ( Read more... )

After a discussion with my friend The Philosopher, I came upon the root of what is truly the societal problem posed by the previous post (as it relates to the individual who has deep, non reciprocated feelings for a friend).

( What makes an individual an ideal life partner? )

Sorry about the long delay in posts... I was looking for inspiration.

So... a female friend's words, not mine: "A friendship between a guy and a girl only works when neither is attracted to the other".

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Orwell Prize still down. Not sure if this is caused by lack of writing on part of Eric (his real first name) or disruption by life events.

( Continuing steady diet of Rap and Hip hop. )

So my boy Frank tells me I need to change my image. So, I need to play up the useless scrub aspect of my life because somehow that will get me more play with the ladies. Now under most circumstances I would feel that this is utter garbage, except for the low quality of men that I actually see women with down here in South FL. I mean, these guys are ( Read more... )

Okay, so where do i start? Maybe from last week.

( The V-Day update )

So I had a chat with a friend today. Big surprise, it was a girl I'd once had an enourmous thing for. It was a really insightful talk. It started out with the hypothesis that I only want girls I can't have, then we went into our own relationship. We've always been good friends, and it appears that my timing with said young woman was always off. I ( Read more... )

So my boy Elias and my cousin BJ and I were talking last night about stuff. We'd gone out with Ruth to Barnes and Noble and once we let her out of the car I was like, "Please... we need to leave now!" I have a few friends read my blog who know how... 'obsessive' I get.

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