When people say, "I'm sorry things are so sucky/crappy/shitty/difficult right now." I feel ok. Consoled.
But when people say, "I'm sorry things are so difficult for you right now," I feel worse. Likewise with, "I'm sorry you're having such a hard time with things."
Why? Because it makes me feel like I'm the problem and not my situation. Makes me
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