Unsure about this death, Help us out?

[scarletbeauty]

http://community.livejournal.com/ana_mia/6243332.html

And if you can't read that, here's a link to the entry that was copy/pasted into lol_anaz: http://community.livejournal.com/lol_anaz/666548.html

She'd posted quite a bit at lol_anaz, but really

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[scarletbeauty]

I think a lot of it was us being mean at lol_anaz, so she posted attention wanting stuff to ana_mia KNOWING that someone would recognize her username and cross post it. I feel like it's her way of going "LOOK WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU'RE MEAN TO PEOPLE, HDU."

[lightningxsnow]

Link to the cancer post?

What kind of cancer did she allegedly have? I know a lot about various types of medical stuff; depending on how detailed it was, I could probably tell if it was real or not.

[scarletbeauty]

Here's what the post said:
"the lump is cancerous.

I won't be comming on here anymore, since my only option here is to stop killing myself more with this stupid effing ed!

or maybe it doesnt matter, maybe the cancer is a sign to be beautiful at least before i die... a shove in the right direction... yea... right... or im just a worthless piece of shit and deserv this.

i think i will go with the second one.

this is my last post on here.

a year at most...

a fucking year.

whoopty fucking doo, a year of what? self hate? family tears? or shit im gonna have to go through when i tell my boyfriend tonight.

mom knows. she wont stop crying. brother knows, Ive never seen him cry before yesterday. sister knows, shes comming back from florida.

for fuck sakes why give me a gaddamn year, just finish it now!!!!!

i dont want this.... I will do anything... ANYTHING... just please... please please please... dont let me die.... "

[nevadamoon]

I'm sorry, but I never believe it when a "friend" logs onto and posts on a deceased person's communities because they think "[deceased] would have wanted y'all to know."

Priority-wise, does not compute at all.

[scarletbeauty]

MTE. I had a friend pass away in 2007 very very suddenly. She had an LJ, and NO ONE has made a post to it. I left a comment on one of her public entries months later to let her friends online know, but until about 5 months later, I couldn't stomach even TYPING that she'd passed away.

[spacecowgirl]

One of my friends quite suddenly died around Thanksgiving 2006. Her boyfriend logged in to her LJ two days later to make a post letting people know, giving funeral/visitation arrangements, etc. We lived in the same area, so I found out from her best friend (who I attended the funeral with), but she had a very large group of friends online and it just didn't seem right or fair to not let them know right away (they would've suspected something was wrong, she posted regularly).

Immediate posts can happen when the death is actually legitimate, but yeah, it is suspect when it comes out of a community like ana/mia.

[teal_cuttlefish]

But immediate posts usually come from someone you already know of, not a best friend who appears out of nowhere.

I've gone into the hospital a couple of times for emergencies and had my husband post something on my LJ, but I talk about him all the time, he has an LJ himself, and the local folks all know him anyway. It's not some stranger coming on my LJ and figuring it all out to post suddenly after an emergency or something terrible.

I did lose an LJ friend unexpectedly. We found out from a couple of sources, because she had actually posted the night before she died of a heart attack at 30. We got links to her brother's FaceBook, and comments to us from local friends we'd met on her journal, not a sudden mystery post. And it was a couple of weeks before we managed to contact some of her groups she was a regular on. Just not the pattern of sudden friend we didn't know posting at all.

[cruiscin_lan]

systemchick, the poster at lol_anaz, is watching this comm.

ETA: Nevermind, they beat me here!

[scarletbeauty]

Yea, I know, but I told them I'd post it here to try to figure out if it's real or not, because it's very very fishy to me.

[cruiscin_lan]

Ten four on that jive. I was looking forward to more insight, but then I saw her comment above and realized she doesn't know any more than anyone else.

[scarletbeauty]

Wait, are you thinking that systemchick wrote the entry about the girls death? She just copy/pasted what was written from ana_mia, lol. "Someone" logged into curvesnsin's LJ and posted that entry "for her".

[thismakebelieve]

I have no idea. But thanks for introducing me to that community =)

[bankingonamyth]

oh lord, this SCREAMS fake. i lol'd so hard at this:

"I'm not suprised she used the same password on here as she did with everything else, she was too trusting. but lucky for me she did because I'm sure she would want you to know. "

uh, yeah, okay. after she died your first thought was "lemme hack her LJ and spread the word." no. that never fails to be a red flag.

[scarletbeauty]

MTE.

[bankingonamyth]

not many people, and even if she did for some reason, why any friend would think the next logical step would be to inform the internet is beyond me. especially LJ. i mean maybe something like facebook (although that would still be ridiculous), but with everyone having so many accounts on so many sites on the internet, WHY specifically LJ? LJ needs to know!!!

it's completely fake. i have yet to see a real death be followed by this kind of friend-on-dead-person's-account gag... especially in a fricking COMMUNITY of all places, not even just their journal. ridiculous.