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[demonfiance]

Is anyone here concerned about what their fiance, husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend is up to? Do you worry about them cheating on you or flirting so incessantly with other people that it could possibly lead to more? Do they actually do these things and if so what do you do about it

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[its_just_max]

Honey, if you're going to worry about those things you shouldn't be engaged. If you love them and they love you they wouldn't do those things.

...And you know? Having us act as spies isn't going to help. You'll just turn your fiance against you more.

[demonfiance]

It's much more complicated than love in my situation.

But I must know what he is doing! He can't turn against me.... Can he?

[its_just_max]

Care to elaborate? Maybe I can help if I know what's going on?

Why? I mean, unless you have SOLID proof he's cheating on you, you should try and have a little faith. And if you...keep such a close eye on him? He'll want to rebel, or become more secretive about what he's doing.

[demonfiance]

"He is always flirting! He is far too friendly and I have seen him do it time and time again!" That is such an exaggeration but in Wolfram's mind it's the truth - Yuuri only has to talk to someone for Wolfram to class it as cheating or flirting. "And I have to keep an eye on him. He needs my protection." He adds firmly.

[fightingblind]

*musingly, a slight smile on his face* I know mine flirts with the world in general, especially those of the female persuasion, and more than occasionally beds said females, and yet I would not call him disloyal.

[demonfiance]

He frowns rather fiercely. "You do not call that disloyal? Why not?"

[fightingblind]

"I trust him not to hurt me."

[demonfiance]

"How can it not hurt you when he is flirting with everyone in sight? As does Yuuri."

[balthazar_this]

*winces* My husband is very much a flirt. It's difficult at times to deal with what he does, but - I know that he is trying and I love him so.

[demonfiance]

"So you just let him get away with it?"

[balthazar_this]

No. We fight about it. A lot. It doesn't come easy to him, marriage.

[demonfiance]

"Why did you marry then?"

[jareth]

There was a time that I did wonder such things... but I trust my husband, more than anyone or anything now. If there is a lack of trust then one should re-evaluate their relationship and decide whether or not it is worth trying to mend.

[demonfiance]

"Perhaps when we are finally married he will calm down - but I do doubt it..."

[jareth]

Have you told him of how his behaviour makes you feel?

[demonfiance]

"He knows very well. He always does it in front of me then protests that he is not cheating!" Yuuri's protests are completely valid since Wolfram is beyond jealous and considers a friendly 'hello' to be flirting in Yuuri's case.

[botticelliangel]

*succinctly* No.

[demonfiance]

"No they do not flirt? That is lucky for you."

[botticelliangel]

He does not flirt, and I have no reason for concern. *halfsmiles* I am very lucky, yes.

[demonfiance]

"I wish my own fiance was as yours."