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[demonfiance]

Is anyone here concerned about what their fiance, husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend is up to? Do you worry about them cheating on you or flirting so incessantly with other people that it could possibly lead to more? Do they actually do these things and if so what do you do about it

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[jareth]

There was a time that I did wonder such things... but I trust my husband, more than anyone or anything now. If there is a lack of trust then one should re-evaluate their relationship and decide whether or not it is worth trying to mend.

[demonfiance]

"Perhaps when we are finally married he will calm down - but I do doubt it..."

[jareth]

Have you told him of how his behaviour makes you feel?

[demonfiance]

"He knows very well. He always does it in front of me then protests that he is not cheating!" Yuuri's protests are completely valid since Wolfram is beyond jealous and considers a friendly 'hello' to be flirting in Yuuri's case.

[jareth]

If you doubt his loyalty and devotion to you, why marry him?

[demonfiance]

"It is my duty." He answers simply and possibly cryptically from Jareth's point of view.

[jareth]

*arches an eyebrow at that* ... Do you love him?

[demonfiance]

"I care deeply for him and I would protect him with my life," comes the serious reply.

[jareth]

What of his feelings for you?

[demonfiance]

"I believe that he considers me a good and loyal friend."

[jareth]

*looks rather surprised*

Friendship is important to a relationship but that is not all that one requires... a mutual attraction and passion are key to making a marriage work, just as much as trust, understanding, and forgiveness.

[demonfiance]

"Perhaps this will develop in time. When we became engaged we could not stand each other..."

[jareth]

*gives him a sympathetic look, having a great understanding of love in many forms complicated*

Then I hope the best for you. I know well of love being required where it is not freely given. In the world where I came from, I was required to love many without any reciprocation... but I was fortunate enough to escape when I found one who did love me and that I love in return of my own will.

[demonfiance]

"It is good that you have found such a love. Yuuri and I have grown closer over time but it is difficult to know one's true feelings."