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confessor_denee

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Mar 16, 2004 22:58

Noone leaves me notes anymore... I feel like shit. I want to go home now... I don't care about loans. I just want to go home and have my mom hold me and say everything'll be okay... and I want to work so that I can buy a new computer, since mine died... and I want to go to Josh's house and laugh at him when he gets drunk ( Read more... )

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punkybritesan March 16 2004, 20:23:25 UTC

*huggles her branni* I love you! I personally can't wait till you come home. It's only a little bit longer. *HUGS*

modaddy83 March 16 2004, 22:57:04 UTC

hang in there sweety, you'll be home soon enough, and we'll all be able to hang out together. :::hugs:::

more bluntness from me. colorwhirl March 17 2004, 00:48:04 UTC

since i'm allowed to be brutally honest and since i've done what you're doing, i get to say it ( ... )

Re: more bluntness from me. darksbane March 17 2004, 06:47:32 UTC

What you say, may be true, but it's also everyone's choice whenever the are ready to stand up in the face of adversity. Some of us have had it forced upon us, and others are given the opportunity to choose. She will spread her wings whenever she's ready, but if she doesn't, that is her choice as well. There is no shame in being happy with where you're from ( ... )

Re: more bluntness from me. colorwhirl March 17 2004, 09:50:58 UTC

first off, when did this become about you, since 2/3rd of that was about you?

What you say, may be true, but it's also everyone's choice whenever the are ready to stand up in the face of adversity.

you know what prompted this, though? because i hear from brandi, through words and actions that she wants to be able to stand up for herself. that she wants to know where she stands so that she can deal with her life. so when i hear those things, i form the opinion that brandi wants to be able to find the strength in her life (but it doesn't always have to be within her) to stand firm. but whining and making no attempts at coping or changing aren't getting her anywhere. *that's* what provoked this. i mean, pity from us is not helping her learn to find her wings.

Some of us have had it forced upon us, and others are given the opportunity to choose. She will spread her wings whenever she's ready, but if she doesn't, that is her choice as well. There is no shame in being happy with where you're from. first off, everyone has to start ( ... )

Re: more bluntness from me. darksbane March 17 2004, 10:10:27 UTC

first off, when did this become about you, since 2/3rd of that was about you?

Another example was prompted since you decided to start the "Woe is me" tour. If you want to go that route, it makes your examples irrelevant as well.

you know what prompted this, though? because i hear from brandi, through words and actions that she wants to be able to stand up for herself. that she wants to know where she stands so that she can deal with her life. so when i hear those things, i form the opinion that brandi wants to be able to find the strength in her life (but it doesn't always have to be within her) to stand firm. but whining and making no attempts at coping or changing aren't getting her anywhere. *that's* what provoked this. i mean, pity from us is not helping her learn to find her wings. She will learn in time. Criticism nor doing everything for her will not help her grow. She has to do it on her own, and in time, she may or may not find moving home was a mistake. What is right for you is not right for her. Who is to say moving ( ... )

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Wow... indigo_wind March 17 2004, 07:45:00 UTC

wow...lots of people with opinions...I'll just say two things and be on my way...

1. I didn't know you had a LJ! But then again, I guess since I never told anybody that I did...lol...

2. *hugs* For a lot of people college is all about finding yourself, at least it has been for me. But where you've been a lot of times is just as important as where you're going...An anger management idea I've always wanted to try: Go to Dollar Tree and spend fifteen or twenty bucks on the really ugly little porcelain statues, then go out some where and smash them with a baseball bat...Hehe...Here's hoping you feel better! Love you!

lilwhitemage March 18 2004, 03:47:21 UTC

My honest thought... I'm glad that you'll be coming home... I know myself how hard it is to get by without getting to spend time with your family and friends. Especially when you have a little one ^^

I totally regret not getting to be with my family these past few years. Not only would I have probably done better school wise (considering I'm not in it anymore -_-; ), but I would have gotten to be there with my lil bro. Granted I might not have met meh Nick, but still... I missed getting to see Cole's first steps, him talking for the first time (though I'm the only person he'll talk to when it comes to on the phone x3)

In short, I'm glad that you've decided to do what will make you the happiest. That's all that matters in the world. *huggles teh Branni* ^_^ Love yas!