Last night was yet another crisis for me. Sort of. Asian guy and I had an argument of sorts. It's complicated. Let me explain the situation
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Look, I've dated a lot of guys. If you feel this way now and he wants to play the field but say your place is "home"... you need to find out if he's in or not, before you do get hurt. You may be at a point where you'd get hurt now and not even know it. I'm sorry if this is too blunt, but I don't want to see any girls get hurt. Good luck.
He's made it clear that he has no intention of playing the field... it was just in my head. I thought that's how he was acting. But I do appreciate the bluntness... not many people do that and I find it refreshing. :)
While I'm happy that you have a boyfriend, there is one red flag to me. I understand that there was no clear relationship before and you seem to have both been dancing around it, but why exactly did he have his panties in a bunch?? Because a guy was at your place? Were you in his lap? Was he feeling you up? I mean... Was there a reason for him to be jealous or was there just a guy you know in the room watching your t.v.??
Sorry, but when guys pull this kind of crap and there is nothing happening and especially if there's no defined relationship, that's the red flag to me.
The jealousy stems from the fact that I just met the guy and that there may have been some flirting at the dinner when I met the guy (boyfriend was present at the tail-end of that dinner). The other is that, in his mind, it's a bit of a pattern... he knows about married skate-guy. It's a bit of a red-flag and he did admit that he overreacted later but yeah, I know what you mean. :)
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I find bluntness refreshing too... that's one major thing here I've had to get used to that I really can't. :(
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Sorry, but when guys pull this kind of crap and there is nothing happening and especially if there's no defined relationship, that's the red flag to me.
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