In relationships, I consider the only appropriate unnegotiated expectation to be this: that the other person will not actively, deliberately hurt you. Everything else -- yes, EVERYTHING -- needs to be negotiated. We can't just expect that other people will be kind to us -- because we may define kindness by different actions than what another
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Yes. Exactly.
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The one place I feel like I diverge is that I've often ended up re-defining the relationships rather than ending them.
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I think I'll add something to this post specifying this.
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