Cleanup Postponement and Grandma

[aadroma]

So I didn't end up going to my mother's this past weekend, and this was at the request of my brother. My brother was the one who found my mother face down on the floor, and now every time he goes into my mother's home that same image of discovering my dead mother's body continues to haunt him. I don't even know what to suggest for him, but I kind

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[muckefuck]

People grieve in different ways. I didn't see my mother shed a single tear when her brother died this time last year--not even in private afterwards. I know it really upset her, but she tends to have delayed reactions to things like this: First you get through everything that needs to be done, and only then do let yourself get emotional. I found myself doing the same thing when my ex nearly died in the hospital.

[maxauburn]

Wow, that is so severe... your Grandmother must have icewater flowing through her veins!

Hope your brother can get past this.. it must have been rough being the one who found your Mom.

*ULTRA-HUGS*