i told brian i'm not sure i feel the same way as i did before and that i'm not sure that i can get that feeling back because of how much i was hurt and everything that's happened since then
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Okay, so. My... well, guy, who I've been with for three years, and broke up with for about two months awhile back, just broke up with me again.
I am officially of the opinion that if you broke up once, there was a reason, and you'll probably break up again. If you really need to give it a second shot, then you can try - and if it doesn't work, then I guess you'll know for sure, right? But honestly - you put so much hope and so much effort into trying to make it work the second time, and when it doesn't, it hurts just as bad as it did the first time. At least, in my case, it does. I spent so long trying to not be afraid to love him again, and now I'm here.
So, that's my newly-heartbroken and bitter perspective, I suppose. I hope, whatever you decide, that it makes you happy.
well that's just downright depressing, because this whole time i've kept what you've been saying in my head.. about giving him space and letting it go to see what happens and all of that. and it gave me hope that you guys got back together, and now this. :( boo. i'm sorry love. ♥
Well, if it helps, we still love each other, my... boy and I. We sat together and cried and wiped each others' tears, and kissed each other and told each other we loved each other numerous times. In our case, situationally, it's just... not working. We tried, and we can't quite get there. I still love him so much, and I know that he loves me... but the relationship isn't making us as happy as it should be. And he's the one strong enough to walk away, I guess. I'm not. A large part of me still feels like trying even more, though logically I know that our lives aren't going to change the way we need them to to make this work for at least a few years. We're still finishing uni and working full time on top of that, and we just don't have the time that we need to have for each other. And it sucks
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Get a girl. Fluffy didn't meow like that, and her mom did but that was only after she matured and they carelessly didn't get her fixed. Which I know you'll take care of because you got Max fixed right away when he was old enough.
well we got oreo fixed and she still used to sit around and howl, so idk why. of course i'll get them fixed silly. i'm just worried cause max doesn't like lainey, but none of her kittens get along with her, so i'm hoping it's just a mommy thing and not a female-hater thing? idk. when we had two male cats before, oreo (the female) didn't really get along with them, but she was the last to come in the house, too. ideeeeek. so many factors :(
Idk, I mean, they says it's easiest to introduce a kitten of either sex to a grown male, but we know how that turned out in my situation. I still say get a girl, because they're dainty princesses.
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I am officially of the opinion that if you broke up once, there was a reason, and you'll probably break up again. If you really need to give it a second shot, then you can try - and if it doesn't work, then I guess you'll know for sure, right? But honestly - you put so much hope and so much effort into trying to make it work the second time, and when it doesn't, it hurts just as bad as it did the first time. At least, in my case, it does. I spent so long trying to not be afraid to love him again, and now I'm here.
So, that's my newly-heartbroken and bitter perspective, I suppose. I hope, whatever you decide, that it makes you happy.
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