Comments | 11_moon_kid_11: Really, why do we do this to ourselves?

11_moon_kid_11

Really, why do we do this to ourselves?

Mar 29, 2006 23:52

I don't know who said it or when it was said, but I remember someone making the point that if women just stopped fighting with each other they could easily rule the world. The majority of girls are really just ridiculous anymore (including me ( Read more... )

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anonymous March 30 2006, 16:42:32 UTC

Bitches are crazy.

just__be March 30 2006, 18:56:40 UTC

i gree...i think though that we are conditioned to crave that sort of attention and, as it would seem, achievement. i think it is up to the individual female (or on the flip side, male, to any negative male-gendered behavior) to recognize her actions and then decide if that is really how she wantes to be percieved..unfortunetly..many do not wish to be taken out of the general female (or male) gendered roles, because the way things are set up, that is how you are a member of society.

11_moon_kid_11 March 30 2006, 19:40:45 UTC

Well put and very true. Yes, and definitely not to say that men can't be as guilty as women because I know plenty of men who thrive on gossip and other's secrets. And it very well could be something that we just do because its what we've been taught or come accustom to, but how long can that be an excuse? Nobody is perfect, things happen and stuff is said, but there has to got be an age when you recognize what you're doing and just how wrong and immature it is. Everyone, both men and women, should just expect more from themselves.

just__be March 31 2006, 04:48:57 UTC

here here!!

11_moon_kid_11 March 30 2006, 20:14:47 UTC

And in rereading this, it sounds like I have an immaculate and nonexistant gossip record, like I've been above all of it the whole time, which I don't and haven't been. But like you said, while recognition and realization is vital, it really only means something if action is taken.

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dream2live March 30 2006, 20:54:41 UTC

so i read this last night at like 3am and definitely remember reading something about reproduction in there. which, upon further inspection, does not in fact exist. but i digress. girls are mean and dumb and crazy. and we all do it. but seriously, it gets to be ridiculous and pointless. cant we all just get along? effin a.

on a side note, singing to the veronicas in my car is only half as fun when youre not there.

11_moon_kid_11 March 30 2006, 21:16:21 UTC

Indeed. I vote we sit around, have a little talk, hold some hands, sing some Kumbaya, possibly cry a bit, maybe play a little game called 'just the tip'? But thats just a suggestion.

In response to sidenote: Pop music is never as much fun when Friend is lacking.

dream2live March 31 2006, 14:54:11 UTC

bahahah. maybe listen to some poetry courtesy of sarah mclachlan. i think it would be phenomenal.

king_regicide April 9 2006, 16:21:30 UTC

i feel the same way but the thing is, its not just limited to girls. its in our nature to act like that. or thats what i'm starting to believe. and its up to us to grow up and over come this "natural urge." but in reality most people don't think they need to come over it because other wise their lives would be boring. and you know people generally think you know everyone else is doing it then it must be the cool thing or why should i change myself. and then some people don't even realise thats what causing the drama in their life because they don't really take the time to think about it.

so if you want it to work (being direct) you need to say, hey i want to fix this, or can we find some sort of middle ground other wise people don't know how to react to what your saying and just say your scary. trust me i know.