This started out as a 14-day challenge on Tumblr last year, but I'm going to treat it as a big ol' questionnaire and post it all as one piece.( Behind the Cut )

Perhaps we've just met. Perhaps we've known each other for months, years, even decades. Perhaps you aren't sure about exactly who I am, or what I mean when I say or don't say things, or what to do with me at all. It's fair for you to wonder, so I'm going to explain, or at least try ( Read more... )

Well, I'm 37 today. ( navelgazing within )

I'm feeling distinctly melancholy ( Read more... )

"And the next time I fall into another's arms
There's one thing of which I'll be certain:
That he can bear the weight of the love I give
Without considering it a burden."

( What It Means )

I'm increasingly frustrated with the quality of my relationships. Angry Geek is pretty fantastic -- he works really hard to be the best he can for me -- and he very rarely lets me down in any way ( Read more... )

Talked to a mutual friend tonight who thinks Snuggly Metalhead will drop me like a hot potato if any other girl gives him the time of day. Honestly, the guy has such terrible luck with women that I couldn't blame him if he did ( Read more... )

( Bad Poly, No Cracker )

I'd really like to hang out with Snuggly Metalhead like we planned it, sometime. I keep seeing him after the bar, and it's late, and I'm kind of tired, and I've usually had kind of an iffy moment or two with someone else, at least lately. I'd like to crowbar a little bit of separation in there, and enjoy his company in a different context. ' ( Read more... )

Okay, I get that there are some people who just don’t enjoy cuddling, but not cuddling because you think it’ll mean you’re getting attached? Actually kind of a giant dick move. Guys who spend the entire time trying to keep you at arm’s length and protesting “BUT I’M NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND” make terrible fuckbuddies. If you don’t have the maturity to ( Read more... )