I was thinking last night, while falling asleep, about my particular approach to sex as an utterly sacred act. I've never tried to articulate how this works for me in a way that others might be able to absorb, as is often the case with my spirituality, which relies on a whole lot of unverified personal gnosis and, frankly, instinct. But because I ( Read more... )

This started out as a 14-day challenge on Tumblr last year, but I'm going to treat it as a big ol' questionnaire and post it all as one piece.( Behind the Cut )

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I found this last night and fell in love. Enjoy.

( Sex is not a goddamn performance. )

It's just after 6am, and I'm just about to get some sleep. Snuggly Metalhead came over after work -- well, after having a couple of drinks after work. We watched (most of) The 13th Warrior and snuggled, and...well, I guess all you really need to know is it was wonderful. It always is. We laugh together, in addition to the more typical ( Read more... )

Okay, I get that there are some people who just don’t enjoy cuddling, but not cuddling because you think it’ll mean you’re getting attached? Actually kind of a giant dick move. Guys who spend the entire time trying to keep you at arm’s length and protesting “BUT I’M NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND” make terrible fuckbuddies. If you don’t have the maturity to ( Read more... )

A sort of random moment with one of my loves the other night brought this to mind, and so I ask you: if you were to put together a sex-related bucket list, what might be on it?

I'm still working on mine. :D

( Dear Universe: )

So I met this girl at the bar the other night. No wait, let me backtrack a little.

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