[cross-post from Fetlife ( Read more... )

I'm still really not feeling very social, so just a few updates.

( In bullet point form )

Since I haven't talked about this one in a while, I figured I'd post some of my profile info from different sites as an example of how I describe myself, how it differs by context, and how it's overall very strongly similar (this has a lot to do with a strong commitment not to compartmentalize my life - again, another post topic for someday ( Read more... )

So, I talk about sex and sexuality-related issues very differently than most folks, and much more openly. And now seems like a good time to explain how boundaries around that work in my life. Or hopefully it is; I did just wake up and may not be entirely coherent yet ( Read more... )

Fair warning, this may be more explicit about my sexual desires than you want to read ( Read more... )

Response to a question to me about how to address a teen's questions about poly stuff ( Read more... )

Kate! Kate, Kate, Kate! (yes, I know I normally refer to her as Katy. I'm trying to break that habit and finally catch up with the rest of the world and her current preference ( Read more... )

The reasons I hid my relationships and sexual involvements over the years are hugely complicated, and have been one of the bigger mindfucks in my life. It's taken a long time to sort out the multitude of often conflicting reasons that was such a strong pattern, most especially in middle and high school ( Read more... )

I was just over at my friend Shelby’s place, and catching her up on life in the past few weeks made me realize just why I’m feeling like my emotions are going in a million different directions at once. Wow. Plenty I still can’t really discuss here, but it’s been item after item within days of each other, any one of which would be pretty ( Read more... )

Pic of a bug on FB, and an ensuing conversation about tattoo history>2:1 ( Read more... )