Went to a really nice steakhouse with a friend yesterday for her birthday. The food was amazing, there was way too much of it, and I continue to like my steaks barely dead. I like them still twitching! On the plus side, this was quite definitely the case here, as the center was bright red and leaking juices. Yum ( Read more... )

I probably shouldn't use fandom_secrets as a judgement for most of humanity, but every now and then it pops up with something that hits too close to home. Basically, someone lamented about the lack of asexual representation in LGBT fest, and the sense of being left out from the queer community- something I have personally thought about myself. The ( Read more... )

See, I love my baby nephew, but I do not love the diseases he gives me. I just caught a nice head cold that has successfully blocked off any and all ability to breathe through my nose. This is me taking tons of cold medication and vitamins while I mourn the fact that my very home has been invaded by disease factory rugrat. Yes, Gabe, now matter how ( Read more... )

This is the definitive 'I am an asexual' conversation. Of the week, anyway.

Ivy: That's great. So the choice is between doing someone and doing something. XD
Ivy: So glad I'm asexual, then. XD
Bari: Ivy you're lucky
Ivy: Most people possessing sex drives tell me that.
Bari: you are though
Ivy: ...Then there's the chosen few who look at me funny.
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To a friend: Asexual can refer to a creature with no physical sex, or to the sexuality or lack thereof: a person with no interest in sex or very, very little interest in sex. Celibate is to asexual what 'dieting' is to 'fasting'. Even that is not a good analogy, because celibacy is something you choose despite desire to engage in sexual activities ( Read more... )