"What Will It Take To Get You To Follow Through With A Divorce?"

[essencedespair]

Mom: "What Will It Take To Get You To Follow Through With A Divorce?"
Dad: "Make me an offer"

I'm just afraid at the drastic change of lifestyle. My mom woke me up to tell me this, and said i needed to find a way to pull my own weight. I've been trying mom.

I'm just really afraid with life right now... :(

I need a little angel or something to enter

Comments

[plasmabomb]

You know what? I haven't been in your particular situation, but I've being doing an uphill battle with depression, delusional thinking and general mental disorder for years. I can only partcially relate to your particular situation since I have some major issues with my father, but I can understand how you're feel

yay for crazie eyes

[essencedespair]

Actually, LJ emails me with information on when comments are left. So i did see this

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[essencedespair]

oh, and no offense here, but this family has been to 1 counciler, and my brother had a therapist. The counciler was of no help [i think he used his counciling job to talk about his problems more than of ours]... and the therapist never listened to what my brother had to say, only believed the things my mom had to say. It was always my mom's side of the story that the doctor believed, and it really bothered me to know that he was treated as if he had no actual feelings in the matter. His opinion wasnt taken into account... and to me, ugh.. i just cant deal with someone saying to me "Your mother did nothing wrong... it is all you. You need to change. you need to be on medications.. you need to.." no.. i cant do that. i cant have someone tell me its all me. And no, i am not saying im pefect, i know my faults, i know my weaknesses, but i also have a mind. I study situations, i enjoy watching people, learning about their personalities, and watching events unfold. I know my mom is the one who brings all the problems to the family. This is

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[plasmabomb]

Aw, Matt! That is the BEST thing I've heard all week! You have no idea how happy I am for you! Wheee! *hugs*

You should totally get a new LJ, with happy unicorns that crap rainbows and butterflies that puke love to celebrate the change.

Concerning the therapist thing, it's okay. There are tons of awesome psychiatrists/psychologists out there that live to help others. It seems fate dealed you a bad card that time. I'm sorry he gave you guys such a terrible time.

Ehh. Rereading my comment, I came off kind of harsh. I apologize. I was having a crummy day and then I saw the entry and. Paff. Brain asplode.

I'd love to talk! I've been out of touch with a lot of my LJ peeps for a while now. Summer and school sort of made my internet life die for a while.

I would totally love to hear about that story. :)

Hugs 'n stuff
Kitty

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[essencedespair]

Eh, i dont think i have any plans on getting a new LJ, nor do i think ill keep updating this one. I dunno, it just doesnt seem all that thrilling anymore. Plus, i fear ill find some way to complain about life. Truely, i think the best thing that happened to me was getting rid of this. Relying on this to vent was just keeping me in the mindset of bad things

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[plasmabomb]

Hah! I was only joking about the LJ thing, crazyface.

I'll see if I can't get myself onto AIM more often.

<3