This weekend has reminded me why I don't like playing in dungeons as much as I like playing  privately or at friends houses - my play style isn't something I want to be fed to the masses to be criticized and dissected. I also don't like to be eye-fucked as I'm herding my bottom to find an empty space for aftercare - now is not the time to impress ( Read more... )

From the local dungeon list, a guy sent a reply to the dungeon to the entire list.  I will bet hard cold cash he's married and cheating ( Read more... )

From last night's conversation:

Did you ever stop to think that perhaps it's not that you were actively shunned or ignored, but that we just don't care enough to coddle ANYONE that much?

Of course, this is really a rhetorical question - butthurt & the scene don't really go well together.

I LOVE this song! The video kinda blows, but I'm definitely adding this to my Dungeon shuffle mix.

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Oh, and my mix of Disney and Kink has some peoples heads exploding. Too bad if you can't handle the awesome that is my dwelling! K said it wasn't the kink stuff that was scary, it was the Disney stuff. Go figure.

("Hey, newbie girls are treated differently than newbie boys! No Fair ( Read more... )

From an email discussion with an exceptional under-35 person who went through a mentoring process ( Read more... )

This weekend was a weird mix of insanity and calm - don't know if I'm recovering from it or basking in the glow ( Read more... )

Talking to a recent transplant from LA, he's amazed and shocked at the amount of backbiting and cliques that abound in the local BDSM communities. On one hand, we're amazingly lucky that we have enough stuff going on that we have the luxury of disdaining this group or that. On the other hand, that tendency might spell out the demise of those same ( Read more... )