Tonight, Keith told me he loves me.  We had a serious talk about our relationship last week, and since then, he's been screwing up his courage to say it.

I told him I loved him, too.

Merry Christmas!

:)

I think there's a lot of pressure in the kink world to be some flavor of poly, because that's what everyone else is doing, it's more enlightened, it broadens your horizons, only petty people have a problem with sharing or jealousy, etc.. If there's a couple at a munch or class, and in the course of introductions says, "My partner and I don't play/ ( Read more... )

I had one of those bitter, hopeless moments last night - totally frustrated at men, being single, and the lack of good pickin's in the scene ( Read more... )

It's that time again - Dan's attempting to do the bulk of the move this weekend, Saturday, from Mountain View to Santa Clara. If you're around Saturday and can help out, that would be awesome ( Read more... )

Heather doesn't know what Twitter is, but she knows she doesn't like it. She read me the riot act on Monday because of "all that short shit" I now post (Loudtwitter posts), and it's annoying to read, so I have to post real shit ( Read more... )

Been going around in circles with a few boys, some old, some new - and a recent boy just showed up in the store yesterday. I think he saw me, but I hightailed it to the back so I didn't have to deal with any of the "Oh, Hi!" nonsense ( Read more... )

1. Know what you’re fighting about
2. Stick to one subject only
3. Be direct - say how you feel, say what you require
4. Choose the time of your battles carefully
5. Keep quarrels private
6. Don’t read your partner’s mind
7. Don’t expect your partner to read your mind
8. Don’t Blame
9. Own your own feelings - this means starting sentences with ‘I ( Read more... )

This will probably only make sense to myself ( Read more... )