The Drake-Astrobean equation for Asexualsby: 3SigmaAnomaly ( Read more... )

"I want to know why it is all in my head and not in my heart."I've been reading one of my old prayer journals (because as one reflects on a transition to atheism, it helps to understand the journey). What strikes me now is how obviously asexual I was, and how much anxiety fed into my relationship with God, because I didn't know why I was different ( Read more... )

As an aromantic ace, I really don't get asexuals who date, but to each their own. As Wash said in Firefly, "some people juggle geese."

I saw a story posted about an asexual girl in a relationship with a sexual guy and some of the responses to the post made me sad. Most people seemed genuinely confused about the existence of asexuality. Several ( Read more... )

So I was reading this article on Possible Signs of Asexuality and one of the signs mentioned was:

If given the hypothetical chance of a no-strings, no-regrets, no-consequences sexual encounter, you’d have to think about it.Usually, this comes in the form of a hypothetical situation: “Random Hot Person X appears in front of you and says ‘Let’s get ( Read more... )

Title: The Innocence of Touch
Author: 3SigmaAnomaly
Summary: A few thoughts on how the meaning of touch changes with sexual maturity, and how asexuals can be left behind.
Warnings: None.
Word Count: 700

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( PART 1: Love Languages )

Title: Part 7: In the closet
Series: Heterosexual in Waiting

( I am protected by the strength that comes from finally knowing who and what I am. )

Title: Part 6: Discovering Erotica
Series: Heterosexual in Waiting
Warning: Mentions of sex education. Too much information

( I finally understood why all those guys in my life thought I was such a tease. )

Title: Part 5: What's wrong with a kiss?
Series: Heterosexual in Waiting
Warning: Mentions of sex

( I should have just cut and run. )

Title: Part 4: Learning to Fear
Series: Heterosexual in Waiting
Warning: Mentions of sex

( I was submissive and naïve and this put me in more danger than I ever knew. )

Title: Part 3: Clueless
Series: Heterosexual in Waiting

( I don’t know what to do with that information. )