I'm not going to flame you, and I don't want to sound mean or critical or anything. But I'd like to pose a few "reality check" questions. If you "don't clean hardly ever" and can "barely take care of your apartment" wont' a bigger apartment just be more of a pain in the ass for you and more dangerous for Mimi? Could you rig a leash to a clothesline or tree and let Mimi run that way? She would probably be happier up there that way then stuck in an apt down here. What price range and size apt are you looking for? I can recommend a few impartially since I now have a house and can't benefit from a refferal. Only one negative comment - your Mom is paying for your apt and you can't work with her to compromise for a while? What would you do if she cut off support? Daughter or not, it seems like you are biting the hand that feeds you.
mimi, being a pug, cannot be an outside dog. they have a very limited temperature span in which they can survive comfortably and are seen as prey to tons of furry and feathered beings. i was in this apt before i got mimi and my health prevents a major overhaul of it. i'm gonna have to hire movers anyway but a fresh start in a new place will make it much easier to maintain. plus being bipolar doesnt help. when you are way depressed things like cleaning fall to the wayside
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Well I can see that you are very much upset. And I can see your reasons being valid reasons, in a realist bigger picture sort of a way. I know on the last post of your mom drama people flamed you and I know I was one for not seeing her point of view and I have to say I forgot to think of your point of view. It's not entirely your fault that you are the person you are, I believe parents have a heavy hand in shaping their kids. I believe your parents raised you to be rather dependent on them and now that your mom is ready to move on and wants you to basically become someone who you arent over night seems unrealistic and a bit unfair. If this had all been worked through like for a year with her coming to you and talking with you the whole time, preping you for this eventual outcome I think it would have been totally different. From what I can see she's throwing you one emotional curve ball after another
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If you "don't clean hardly ever" and can "barely take care of your apartment" wont' a bigger apartment just be more of a pain in the ass for you and more dangerous for Mimi?
Could you rig a leash to a clothesline or tree and let Mimi run that way? She would probably be happier up there that way then stuck in an apt down here.
What price range and size apt are you looking for? I can recommend a few impartially since I now have a house and can't benefit from a refferal.
Only one negative comment - your Mom is paying for your apt and you can't work with her to compromise for a while? What would you do if she cut off support? Daughter or not, it seems like you are biting the hand that feeds you.
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