Comments | wptexasmango: Monday, you can kindly fuck off.

wptexasmango

Monday, you can kindly fuck off.

Sep 27, 2021 14:57

Today is such a Monday. Already in battle royale round 2 with our accounting department within a few minutes of being at the office. I really pissed them off royally on Friday (it was my fault, i take responsibility) but there are so many fucking rules and regulations to getting anything ordered or done here and we have one credit card for a ( Read more... )

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gravie October 1 2021, 19:51:22 UTC

In response to your subject: Yep, Monday can just go suck a dick, haha ( ... )

gravie October 1 2021, 19:51:28 UTC

I think you two are doing literally the best imaginable in this situation, too. He is under a ton of stress at work, as are you, plus juggling covid + visits/a semblance of a marriage + a wedding, all remote. That's a lot of stress, especially when your person is away, so it feels like a lot of stress to bear alone. I think your approach is the best you can hope for, with getting some visits in as often as you can, and I also hope that your wedding helps renew both of your energy levels. Like, spiritually and literally, you both have a renewed sense of purpose and togetherness after that hurdle. Because right now, it's a hurdle: it's a thing and a stress and an event. But I think the wedding will also remind you of "oh yeah I love this person," we're together, we're doign this for the right reasons, we've got this, and we've got a plan. I hope it will help things feel easier, because let's be real: literally nothing about your guys' situation right now is easy. The bumps are expected, but they still suck, and I am glad you weathered ( ... )

wptexasmango October 5 2021, 22:12:21 UTC

I should be working right now, but since I've been going non-stop today at work since 9AM, I feel okay taking a little break to share wedding fun with you as a happy distraction from everything else going on (thanks for asking BTW)

We're getting married in Lockhart, TX (the BBQ capital of Texas y'all!) on a working polo ranch that is 420 acres. They recently (as in the last two years) built and opened an event venue on the property and since I'd been there for many games in the past and now they had this beautiful new event barn and a tie-in to polo, I was sold at first sight.

Wedding is on Friday, Nov 12, rescheduled from Friday, November 6, 2020. It's a vow renewal really. We'll be doing a short ceremony where we are going to say our actual vows that we wrote (which we did not do last year). We do have a wedding party (wish I had decided no wedding party because my bridesmaids have been useless, but it's fine, whatever). Sour Bridges has agreed to play our cocktail hour and we are also going to have a polo match happening on the ( ... )