Thoughts on friendship, aka, I'm not being passive aggressive

[thehobbit]

krowface, and LJ staple and friend of mine for years is very vocal when his "friends" piss in his cornflakes and over all disappoint him

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[thehobbit]

It's weird though how much credit I give my LJ friends. We are all SO fucking busy. All of us. Kids, no kids. I mean you just got Moo and dogs are such almost children. I'm not saying in that psychotic dress your animal up sort of way (I miss buying my dog sweaters-don't judge!) but that most dogs are said to be almost on the same level as two year olds. You basically just got a toddler. That's so intense and awesome

[stucking_foned]

i had to bail on a friends kids bday party because i didnt get my request for the day in in time. when i called her to apologize, she mentioned how its been months since we have talked to each other, and we used to talk every other day, at least. i told her the same thing.. sorry ive been really busy with school and trying to work so i have some sort of income to help dave with the bills while hes finishing up school and stuff and i have thought about calling and thought about it but something always happens and i never get to call. plus... really...i'm not a phone person. i was like sorry i've been a shitty friend lately. shes like sherrer... dont worry about it. it goes both ways. ive had a phone this whole time too. so she got it.. and it made me feel better.

[halafax]

Life happens, and things sort of get in the way. I try to be there for people as best I can. Just sometimes life wont let you do that. Then again yeah Ive managed to miss stuff. All you can do is do the best you can, and when you have done all you can do, thats it.
I do understand where you are coming from on how people who you least expect come out of the wood work to support you, while people you think would be the first ones there are no where to be found.
Peoples is strange creatures. Soylent green is people, so does that make Soylent green strange crackers?

[thehobbit]

It makes it all good soup.

[n3m3sis42]

I'm a shit friend for sure. I try though. Sometimes.

Today a friend of mine got pissed off at me because I am bailing on our plans to see Twilight tomorrow so I can visit my friend who is LITERALLY dying. Literally. Dying.

WTF.

[thehobbit]

I feel like the only appropriate response to this is:

D:

I don't even know what to say. I hope your friend doesn't literally die, but whoa. Twilight will never > real person. WTF indeed.

[stucking_foned]

i could have wrote this. but i feel like i'm just a shit person. friend or not

[thehobbit]

You are definitely not a shit person. I was thinking how if I had more money you'd be on my list of people to buy presents for.

But because I suck I can't. And I'll forget to buy you something anyway. But you're awesome. <3

[stucking_foned]

well.. i see things AALLL the time and think of the boys, so maybe we're on the same page lol. if the road to hell is paved with good intentions, my path will be the smoothest most awesomest road ever.